"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another date with her

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pgbiswas79

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Hi guys,
I had a second date wid this girl after a gap of 3 months coz i ws in australia for some project. am frm india. I engaged her in conversation but at times we were having breaks of silence which lasted not more 5 seconds. I maintained good eye contact and spoke to her most of the times wid confidence. she ws smiling most of the time i ws speaking wid her and being my witty self, i made her laugh too. she ws touching her hair and fondling her earrings while speaking wid me. she at times ws not keeping long eye contact wid me ( she is a bit shy and she admits tht too) but tht didnt deter me. she gave me the usual "u look good" comments and i reciprocated as well.

She is a bit scared of elevators and she held my hand all the time we were going up and down the elevators. at times i grabbed her hands using both my hands. I gave a bunch of roses and she said it meant very special to her and tht nobody has ever given her tht.

Questions:

I am meeting her again the next day after the date. I asked her too

Am I doing things too fast here ? Should i keep some gaps between date ?

How to keep the conversation going? I have already spoke to her abt her family, habits, passion.

Maybe i am trying too much to please her. wht should be my line of action now ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pgbiswas79 said:
cmon guys. how abt some suggestions or opinions. ?
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You want to know why no one is replying?

Sorry, but because this thread is stupid.

Just like so many other threads. The questions you are asking are all newbie questions, and you have not read any of the bible, or any other recommended material before posting up really simple questions.

So don't bump it. Instead, read the fvcking bible like so many guys have told so many more newbies.

You bought her roses? I'm not judging purely by this, but you seem still quite AFC. Keep this up for a few weeks, maybe months, and she'll lose interest.

You are overthinking, i can tell you didn't work on Inner Game too much. Someone with strong Inner Game knows the woman wants them bad, and it's up to her to convince the man to spend time with her.

I remember reading your old trhead, about that email. Honestly, you have a lot of work to do, you haven't got some of the very simplest basics down. Go read the bible, 15 lessons by Pook, and all your questions plus many more future ones will have been answered.

By the way, it's highly recommended that you use proper english when posting, and interacting with women online.

No more "ws", was.

No more "wid', with.

No "U's, 4s" or any other "shortcuts".

They just make you look childish.
 
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