"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another crossroads

Serg897

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Here I am again. Been here many times before.

Have a great girlfriend right now. Family is Asian - from Thailand. Sexy. Intelligent. Always eager to please me. Shares hobbies. Loyal. Everything is good.

Yet, we are both looking for new jobs at the moment and its likely this relationship will end when we move to different cities.

Of course, I could try to stay with her. But I dont think I really want this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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Go for the mff! haha
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Serg,
Thais are lovely Girls,she sounds typical...The Bhuddist Philosophy does nice things to People....But Mate why not cross your Bridges when you come to them?
 

Serg897

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Bridge will be here soon enough. A few months at most.

Staying with her would mean altering my career plans and moving to a place I probably wouldn't want to move to, just to be with her. It would mean becoming domesticated. This is something I do not really want to do just yet. She has her own plans, and unless she wants to change them we are going to separate.

Its going to be very, very painful for a while.

I am 27 years old, almost 28. I see people settling down, getting married and having babies everywhere around me. Almost to the point where some people want to make me want to feel strange for NOT following their example and instead going through different girlfriends/periods of singlehood.
 
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