"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another "car" pick up but got out for this one (Shocking results)

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today after school i went for a lil drive.

On my way to a gasstation, i notice this hot girl walking towards a bus stop, she eyed me i eyed her, no big deal though, i just thought, that she is fine but thats it.

So im pumping gas and i see her at the bus stop by herself with an umbrella protecting her from the sun.

So i drive pass her she looks at me again and we make good eye contact, so i think, let me go park and walk up to her instead of talking to her from the car on the middle of the road. So i make a u turn and i park at a mechanic next to the gas station, she didnt see me doing all this though, i walk across and come from behind her, i stopped like 15 feet away from her so that i dont look like a predator, or somebody thats trynna kidnap her i say "excuse me ms" she didnt hear me so i say it again.

She turns around and replies hi, now i walk up closer but still good distance in between each other, i say " are u going this way?" are u waiting for the bus" she says yeah blah blah, i say " im going that way i can offer u a ride if u dont mind, " she said naw blah blah blah ill take the bus , i say " i do not like to see a girl like u waiting for a bus in this heat, let me offer u a ride" She was now undecided so i said " ima go get the car ok, hold on" (the convo was more than that, but trynna make it short.

So i get the car pick her up. and for my surprise it turns out that she is one of the most decent smart girls that i have ever met, we had a converstion in the car like we had known each other for yrs, we clicked , i liked the way she carries herself, she is respectful, towards others and herself, talks abou life, values, future plans with what to do with and how to have a better life. i wasnt expecting that from her at all, she is one of the most intelligent girls.

She told me that " you didnt come too agressive and you was very respectful thats why i got in" i said "thats just me:cool: "

I mean everytime i approach a girl on the street like that i come as respectfully as i can since i want to let them know that ima "good" guy and not a killer.

So i dropped her at her college, and she didnt wanna get out the car, she told me to park, we went looking for parking, but i told her that its ok, she can get off, she said that she didnt wanna disrespect me like that, i said that its ok (there is no parking damn it) i was surprised totally surprised at this girl, this is wife material girl, the girl that u wanna bring home to mama. Im not jumping to conclusions but for what i saw and the way she carried herself, i can tell.

She was open to me and told me straight up the truth about why she got in the car and how she felt about me etc...

Ended up exchanging numbers, an i will call her in a few days.

this girl got my respect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hahahaha you're still going at it with those car pick ups I see.

True.
 

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I mean i just cant help it when im going somwhere and i see a fine A$$ lady...i think im a sex addict ive been saying it for the longest.

But results are getting better and better
 

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I'm loving it...

P&S: Well done! I like your confidence. I'm looking forward to hearing the 2nd half of this story;)


Laterz...
 

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Either that or you must have a really nice car! ;)


What do you drive?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well i drive an average car, more leaning to the nice.

ITs an 94' Honda accord, only thing i did is drop it, put crystal lights on the back, thats it, it just looks nice, but it aint the car, well at least thats wat i think, i dont know about what be going thru their heads.

But at least in this situation, i know it wasnt the car, although she saw me in it, i parked and came out, and approached her.

Ima call her later on, ill let yall know how it went
 

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Awesome. I have never attempted this kinda thing. I have heard those stories from girls at my college where a guy is driving along and then sees them and pulls a u-turn really fast and tries to talk to them from the car and they basically run away, haha. Unless the girl is in a car too, like at a stoplight, I don't see a very big chance for picking up girls that way.

But you got out of the car so it is completely different. Basically, by "aggressive," she meant acting like the type of moron I described above. She could sense you had good intentions, especially since you didn't come on to her too much there. Hey, when she said she wanted to park somewhere, don't you think she wanted to give you a little reward right there or something? Why didn't you find a dam-n spot somewhere :p The girl probably would have skipped her class for you.
 

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Plain & Simple: I want to see you pick up a b!tch from your car while she's in her own car. Then I'll be impressed.
 

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Originally posted by GropeDope
Plain & Simple: I want to see you pick up a b!tch from your car while she's in her own car. Then I'll be impressed.
Hmmm.... every girl I mess with in this situation thinks I'm just fu-cking around... hahaha. Bi-tches need to learn to take a young nigga seriously dam-nit.
 

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Good job on the PU!! But you ARE jumping to conclusions by saying she's "wife material" after knowing her for less than an hour. But I know what you mean when you meet a cool chick. Let us know how that goes.




PIMP
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I feel like this is a tv show and we have to wait for the next episode. Nonetheless, very nice job, AND I too am looking forward to hear the 2nd part of this story.
 

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Believ me when it comes to cold approaches i have tried them all, i have even approached a girl from jet to jet, on a lil cruise i was on, and from car to car is no different/new to me.
From car to car is way harder , cause 90%of them dont look at u and the once that do pull their tinted windows up, thinking that u are a pervert moron, but wat i do, its first i just wave at them, (car to car) then i just say something funny, or i tell them, where yall going, they say to such and such, and i just keep it at that, i never try to close from car to car, i just dont, ive been succesful like that only one time where it turned out that we were going to the same club.

As for this chick, i mean i dont think that she was gonna "Reward" me in any special way.
I called her up earlier around 7 we talked for like 8 mins, i told her that i was gonna call her back at 11pm but i dont know if i should, she told me that she was gonna be up and that she doesnt go to bed till late 2am 3am.

Should i call her back?

Oh and she called me sweety when we hanged up :):D :p i said " so ima call you around 11 then aight" she said "ok" then when i said bye she said "bye sweety"

haha, anyway should i call her? or should i just leave her wanting more and call her tomorrow?
 

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Originally posted by RarelyGetAHairCut
Question is, did she give you gas money?
:eek:


I have decided not to call her until tomorrow, evening, we'll see how it turns out, going good so far, i was shocked that we had such a good convo, and her willing and enjoyment of talking to me
 

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I dunno man...


Unless she's southern, then I don't know bout that "sweetie" thing. Seems kinda clingy already...

But I'd say go ahead n check it out.

Good Luck w/ that.

Nice pickup.

I'm still workin on the Moto pickup. I haven't figured out where I can put a 2nd helmet on my Ninja while I'm riding...

Anyone else a rider around here? I'm thinkin a helmet bag might be the only way to go as far as keeping a spare helmet on board.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by ****y-Blond-Guy
I dunno man...


Unless she's southern, then I don't know bout that "sweetie" thing. Seems kinda clingy already...

But I'd say go ahead n check it out.

Good Luck w/ that.

Nice pickup.

I'm still workin on the Moto pickup. I haven't figured out where I can put a 2nd helmet on my Ninja while I'm riding...

Anyone else a rider around here? I'm thinkin a helmet bag might be the only way to go as far as keeping a spare helmet on board.
I have seen street bikes that have helmets sitting on the very back of the bike..... I don't know if there's a holder made for this purpose or not.
 

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im not a biker or nothing, im into sport bikes than when it comes to bikes, but i think ive seen some harleys with one helment on the edge of the backseat, i dont know how they manage to hold it there still though, ask any biker around your area they should know.
 

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hmm i dont know, this seems kinda odd.

I text her before "good afternoon princess" she replied " hey sexy" ok , but then i texted her "u can call me at 11 30 if u want" cause i was at work she asked me if thats when i get off i told her yeah, (really i get off at 10 but anyway) and she this wat kinda got me she said "ok hun we'll talk later"

I mean the part that seems odd to me is all this sweet name calling, i mean either thats how she treats people or she really digs me...:)
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
hmm i dont know, this seems kinda odd.

I text her before "good afternoon princess" she replied " hey sexy" ok , but then i texted her "u can call me at 11 30 if u want" cause i was at work she asked me if thats when i get off i told her yeah, (really i get off at 10 but anyway) and she this wat kinda got me she said "ok hun we'll talk later"

I mean the part that seems odd to me is all this sweet name calling, i mean either thats how she treats people or she really digs me...:)
I hear this all the time around here ... "sweetie" "hun" "sugar" "darlin" "dear" .... DO NOT be deceived by this ... its the South bud ...just a phrase that gets tossed around by chicks around here ...

Personally, I think a lot of times , when they say this crap to guys , its very misleading

Make sure she's not one of those really rich and uppedy southern belles too
 

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good job man. but I dont know about picking up a chick like that, its kinda weird. but good job man.:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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