"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yep, schools over and another boring summer is on its way. What do I mean by that? No chicks, staying in the house, boredom, in the back of my mind, I would even like to go back to school. Also, I've noticed that, no matter how good I am at something, may it be playing video games or playing guitar, I always get bored, there's nothing keeping me motivated or interested. Now guys, I'm not whining, there's actually a point to this topic. Where are good places to meet girls over summer? What could I do to make this summer more interesting? While everyone else is probably out there doing **** with their friends, I'm lonely in the house this summer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go out with your friends from school to the beach, or somewhere outside to enjoy the weather. Go to friends pools. Check out parties. Get a job. Stuff like that.

When you aren't doing those. Just chill and play with your guitar or video games. Write some music. Form a band.

Possibilites are endless.
 
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Originally posted by Rad
Go out with your friends from school to the beach, or somewhere outside to enjoy the weather. Go to friends pools. Check out parties. Get a job. Stuff like that.

When you aren't doing those. Just chill and play with your guitar or video games. Write some music. Form a band.

Possibilites are endless.
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Well, I would go out with my friends to the beach or something, but the problem is, to be perfectly honest, I don't have many friends outside of school.

Writing music seems like a good thing, although like I said I don't know many people outside of school, so I wouldn't know where to find people to form a band with.
 
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i think i'm like you, i cna't satisfy myself alone, i get bored too easy.
My mosm trying to cap em to "2 nights a week youre allowed out" rule..fcuk that. lol.
to get away form here i signed up for Art courses in California[other side fot he nation for me!] ...maybe see if anything liek thats still open?
 
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Just hang out... beach, downtown, mall, anywhere...
just get down there and get your macking started...k?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you're on the internet, so I'll assume you live in a place where civilization exist.
If that exists, I'm sure people are there. If they are there, I'm sure there are hot chicks as well. And if its summer, I'm sure they're all wearing skimpy clothes.

And if its day, when the sun is out, you can definately find them trying to cool down under the shade. What better person to cool down with then you?

Exactly.

You CHOOSE to bore yourself. You said you're only allowed twice a week to go out AT NIGHT. NOT AT DAY! Pretend its your day job and go out!

My progress with girls has been really bad. my sole purpose after my exams are over is to go out everyday to like a park or something and pick up girls. Simple.
 
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