Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
More fool them. If they lack the breadth of mind to not realize something is severely off and act accordingly toward a system that no longer rewards the producer then they deserve to be chewed up and spat out.MatureDJ said:good beta men make the world a better place and get rejected by women like this ..
You make it sound like this chick is something desireable. Maybe she's not bad looking for an old fart like Manson, but she has to be so mentally deranged and damaged to date someone like that, you couldn't pay me to be in the same room with the crazy b!tch.MatureDJ said:Meanwhile, good beta men make the world a better place and get rejected by women like this ...
Seriously. If that chick is considered "quality" whom "betas" can't get then there's a serious problem with the person making that claims picker.zekko said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Did you see the nude pics of her that were used as evidence in her trial? She got' the ugliest tuna hole I ever did see! ewwwwThe411 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
