"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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another AFC question(or is it?)

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Yes it is.


If a girl ,when I ask her where will she go on a saturday night ,never mentions a guy but is always going with friends. Would you assume that she's single? I assume that if a girl is taken(college) she will definetly go out on saturday with her borefriend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well not always - i know a lot of girls in college (i am in college as well) i know alot of girls that go out with their girlfriends on the weekends and not w their boyfriends.. so you should just be upfront and ask her - "are you single?" if she says no, say, to bad for you then and walk away - then the next time you see her, use a little C+F and she might come around lol
 
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I agree with silkkster, girls like to go out with their girlfriends. Just be up front and ask her if she has a b/f.

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Does it matter that she has a BF or not???

You sarge you do your best and if she gives you IOI, you're in!!! If she has a BF and they are tight then she will reject your advances.

Don't let a mental block like that stop your game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The only reason you need to know about the b/f issue is so that you can adjust your approach accordingly.

Pym
 
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The only reason you need to know about the b/f issue is so that you can adjust your approach accordingly.
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Before I call your BS, give us an example!!!

I've never known any PUA to even bother with that issue.
 
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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Before I call your BS, give us an example!!!
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Before you call my BS? I hope I can come up with a satisfactory answer for you…

I am dating two women right now, one 14 years younger than me and the other 13 years younger than me. I’m doing fine and your opinion means little.

I will indulge you however and you can call it what you want.

I have observed that many women place a value on a potential mate based on what he can provide in terms of material and emotional security.

If you deem her worthy of you and she is otherwise committed, then you begin gathering intel on their relationship. Find the weaknesses and exploit them. Most women are more than willing to trade up if there is little risk to their material and emotional security.

It is the guerrilla war code of conduct:
Draw attention away from the front
Know your enemy’s weakness
Confuse your enemy
Cause damage

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I am dating two women right now, one 14 years younger than me and the other 13 years younger than me. I’m doing fine and your opinion means little.
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This statement is irrelevant and needless grandstanding.. Unless you actually used your above mentioned techniques on these girls.

I have observed that many women place a value on a potential mate based on what he can provide in terms of material and emotional security.
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I'd rather a girl not know whether I can or cannot provide for her materialistic and emotional needs. I'd like to know whether she can provide for me!!!!!

If you deem her worthy of you and she is otherwise committed, then you begin gathering intel on their relationship. Find the weaknesses and exploit them.
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What weakness, what explotation???

Most women are more than willing to trade up if there is little risk to their material and emotional security.
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Most women will trade up if her BF is a loser or an AFC even if there is a risk. Both of which matters little in your attempted sarge.

Seriously.....How does knowing her status aid in the actual art of seduction??? Explain this to me like I'm a 4 year old!!
 
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Explain this to me like I'm a 4 year old!! [/B][/QUOTE]

Why? 4 year olds don't have problems getting women, they are chick magnets!

Fine, you don't think it matters and I do...who cares?

:rolleyes:

Pym
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The seduction community cares!!!

I'm having a problem deciphering your explaination... But otherwise would like to know how (tactically) you would benefit...
 
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Originally posted by napoleon
Yes it is.


If a girl ,when I ask her where will she go on a saturday night ,never mentions a guy but is always going with friends. Would you assume that she's single? I assume that if a girl is taken(college) she will definetly go out on saturday with her borefriend.
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If a guy, when he asks a woman where will she go on a Saturday night, never asking for a date but he is obviously interested in her. Would you assume that he is a AFC because he is afraid that he will be rejected per usual?:rolleyes:
 
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