another "AFC" like disappointment

[DJArlington]

so i meet this girl on the internet. she emails me after she sees my profile, basically we exchange pictures and then i give her my number over email and then she calls me.

i always do well at the beginning, but here's where my stupidity begins to kick in. we play phone tag on saturday, so finally on sunday afternoon i talk to her. i call her again on sunday nite (we made the agreement i would call her later on in the day cause i was really busy). so i call her later on in the day then she gives me a call back later.

after the convo on sunday nite, she was like just give me a call tomorrow nite. so monday nite, i call her and we talked for a few hours like we did sunday nite. then i called her again last nite (Tues). this time, in the middle of the conversation she ends up getting off the phone with me cause her best friend is calling her. she says she'll call me back but she hasn't yet. she was even online earlier today but didn't instant message me.

we've had great conversations and she's a cool girl. have i called her too much? what can i do to repair myself since i probably look like a wuss even though i've called her three nites in a row?

i need some help DJs - help this AFC get out of this hole so he can get this chick.

later fellas - thanks as usual.

 

[dcfball]

to much time on the phone

get her on, fluff, date close, any bull****. NEXT

 

[DJArlington]

Need some advice

Hey guys - could i get some advice on this one?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

First of all theres no need to spend all this time on the phone. The first time you spoke to her you should have called her, asked her out, set up a specific time and place to meet. After that there was no need to make any further phone calls. This is how you avoid phone tag.

What you need to do now is call and set up a date! Do not spend more than 5 minutes on the phone.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Yeah your definitely spending waaaaaaay too much time on the phone. You two haven't even gone out yet, your basically cutting your throat off and throwing yourself in the friend zone. I think after you've fuvked a girl and you two are together its ok to talk on the phone a little longer, but in general avoid it at all costs. Makes you look like you have nothing better to do and its a definite turn-off to girls in general.



PIMP

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

GET OFF THE PHONE AND DON"T SEND E_MAILS TO A GIRL YOU JUST MET!!!!!!!

How to salvage? Set up a date immediately - and don't do dinner or movies, do a fun activity...and by all means go for the kiss. She should know everything about you already considering you talked on the phone for hours!!

 

[DJArlington]

Guys,

Thanks for the advice. She didn't call me back tonite. I didn't attemp to call her either. When should I call and set up the date?

She was supposed to call me back last nite - may be she just isn't feeling it.

Any thoughts?

 

[RabidDog]

They all had thoughts, just to sum up so the other DJ's dont have to....

#1 Call Her when convienent
#2 Make a date, and soon.
#3 Go for the kiss, and possibly the close
#4 Proceed to non AFC'ness
#5 Next her if needed

-Rabid

 

[LuckyStrike]

Play it cool and don't even bother to make any contact with her at all. You don't need to be playing these stupid@ss games, especially from some chic you just met off the internet. She said she would call you back, then let her. If she doesn't...oh well. NEXT! In the meantime, if I were you, I would get out and work on some other ladies.

 

[Reto]

I agree with all of the above...

Think about it...You talked and talked on the phone. You finally get together in person and... there's nothing to talk about ! It's all been said!