She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah I was about to say the same thing. A bit like rape, when we see a hot chick we really want to shag her, but don't just go to her and do it due to consequences. Some people just have a low tolerance level and/or don't care about it, and commit the crime(s) anyway.Bvbidd said:I'm sure you all want to sometimes. We just don't do it, due to the consquences.
I was waiting for someone to post this. Talk about being frustrated over an ex and a bunch of guys trying to be AMOGs by putting him down. Add to that the guy's immaturity and lack of having a psychological analysis prior to being accepted into the academy and you have a recipe for disaster.Last Man Standing said:
But you know what, the sad part about it is that there are two sides to the coin. There was no respect from the other group of people and especially the woman. It is why people easily fly off the handle those days because respect is not there (people today mistake respect for a sign of weakness and are more immature then previous generations) and they use violence to gain respect. If the woman was respectable and the people in the party wouldn't have egged this cop on but rather left them alone for a moment to solve their own damn problems, it might not have come to this.Francisco d'Anconia said:
I still question his need to pursue the girl, it was his ex. They had broken up several times over the years but it seems that one-itis is a b1tch so shake even if you are in a career which you believe makes you powerful.DJDamage said: