Another 1st date where the Girl mentions ex's...advice?

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I've been down this road twice already this year. If a girl mentions her ex or tells you about his salary,etc. There are major problems. She did mention other guys as wel. This girl is very impressive,pretty,intelligent,smart,etc. But this is a hurdle to overcome. Anyone know how to play theese? in my experience there is nothing you can do. The first date went really well,kissed,etc. but I'll def. still be sarging.

 

[FairShake]

I've been down this road twice already this year. If a girl mentions her ex or tells you about his salary,etc. There are major problems. She did mention other guys as wel. This girl is very impressive,pretty,intelligent,smart,etc. But this is a hurdle to overcome. Anyone know how to play theese? in my experience there is nothing you can do. The first date went really well,kissed,etc. but I'll def. still be sarging.

Mentioning an exboyfriend isn't always a bad thing. When getting to know someone people talk about who they are and that's part of who you are. It's all about how often they mention them and in what context.

If she's talking about money there is no other context other than that of golddigging. Play it simply or don't play it at all. She isn't worth too much of your time and attention, probably just to fvck. And if that isn't in the cards without alot of work be gone my man.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I try and be as accomodating to my female dates as possible but this is just one of my peeves. If a girl im taking out talks about her EX I immediately and openly loose interest in her. The girl i'm talking to now started to do that crap to me and I told her "you talking about guys is the same thing as me talking how pretty my last date was, I have absolutely NO interest in that crap i'm sorry" Theres just certain things I cant put up with and thats one of them.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Exactly Splacker. I'm going to bring it up next time. I've gone through this twice already this year The girl still misses the ex, and eventually goes back to them.

 

[f283000]

I try and be as accomodating to my female dates as possible but this is just one of my peeves. If a girl im taking out talks about her EX I immediately and openly loose interest in her. The girl i'm talking to now started to do that crap to me and I told her "you talking about guys is the same thing as me talking how pretty my last date was, I have absolutely NO interest in that crap i'm sorry" Theres just certain things I cant put up with and thats one of them.

This is actually very good advice for a number of reasons

1. You are checking her on the spot: Talking about an ex on a date is universally recognized bad dating etiquette whether it be from the guy or girl.

Most guys allow bad behavior to go on because they fear the reaction from the female. Their inner nice guy controls them and doesn't allow them to display masculine dominant behavior.

2. You checking a woman's bad behavior is masculine behavior. Not only that but women love it:

The more you deal with women you will come to find out that women behave badly just to get a rise out of you and for you to put a stop to their bad behavior. They are like little kids behaving badly but women do it on purpose and subconsciously in their mind they want to know how far they can push your buttons before you stop them. They want to know if you're a real man or a spineless nice guy.

My best display of checking a woman's behavior on a date happened when we were sitting on a bench and she kept using her cell. I told her it was disrespectful to keep checking her cell while we were talking. She put the phone back on her purse and didn't txt again for the whole date! The moment I did that I noticed a reaction from her of obedience/compliance and new found respect towards me.

Guys you have to be willing to discipline women on the spot at any given moment. Discipline is not smacking her across the face. Discipline is simply pointing out bad behavior, discipline is giving her the silent treatment, a serious look of anger, willing to walk out on her.

Women behave badly because WE ALLOW THEM TO! Then you wonder why women flock to a**holes and jerks who treat them like crap. These guys don't tolerate bad behavior from women.

 

[Vice]

I personally don't give a f*ck if she mentions her ex. Who cares? I usually mention the fact that I keep in touch with my exes and we have a healthy relationship. If she asks why we're exes, I just tell her that it's because they all moved away.

If she's talking about her ex and sh*t he's done, pay attention; she's giving you the BLUEPRINTS to what attracts her.

But if it's excessive, like f283000 said, put her in check, and be more than willing to prematurely end the date.