"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anonymous wingmen. A good idea?

Is hooking up with a strange wingman a good idea?

  • Hell yea, my friends are chumps.

    Votes: 13 76.5%
  • Hell no, he might be a chump.

    Votes: 4 23.5%

  • Total voters
    17

bugsquish

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You might be inviting a hookup with a DJ wannabe, a RAFC, an AFC, a guy with no looks, no style, no game, no intelligence. Someone who wants to get in your way and feed off your game. Basically, someone who will do your game more harm than good.

You might also be hooking up with the suavest best looking guy on here. You just can't tell.

What do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MoAF

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Well I've met 2 DJ's so far. One I'd talked to for a year or so, and another only a week or two. They drove up to BUF together and I must say it wasn't too shabby. After all, if you meet someone and they are just an AFC/RAFC/DJWB you could always just approach solo with them chilling in the background taking some mental notes and just take turns. Having somone to share your battles/stories/ideas with is invaluble in this game.
 

SamePendo

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You just check the past messages this guy has made, and check out how he is. It gives you a pretty good idea of what he is.
 

So pimp its scary

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You could always ask for a picture or some sort of unbiased rating of skills (ie.: I would say that I have more bad days picking up chicks then good days, or on a scale from 1(retarded with women) to 10(Master DJ) that I am 4)...

or checking out what the person posts... the only thing is that you might end up being the teacher rather then the pupil... and I could see that being an advantage in some ways.
 

squirrels

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F**k...if he's keeping her friends busy...

That's the main thing...find a decent looking dude who's attracted to her friend(s) and sic him on them while you work the one YOU'RE into.

As far as OTHER DJs, like was said, if you don't get a true DJ vibe off the guy, the best thing to do would be to take turns approaching and seeing what happens. And again, really, all the wing has to do is distract the other girl(s) from the target.

Having a neutral observer instead of someone who's in the mix with you, though, could yield some decent insight.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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