"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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annoying things chicks do..

onyx

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whether u just met em or ur in a relationship wid em



i was in a club the other day, and this chick came and started talkin to me, i was chattin wid her for a while, kino and ****, then she asked what i was drinkin, and started takin sips of my drink! A pint is a mans castle, i cudnt believe that ****...but i didnt say anythin

it remined me of that time on friends when joey was on that date, and that chick stole fries of his plate LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had chicks in a bar telling my friend and I, that they will flash us if we buy them drinks.

Oh yeah like seeing a pair of t1ts for less then a second is really what I yearn for. :rolleyes: Needless to say some other fool in the bar pay for it and they got their drinks and left him with lighter wallet.
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
I had chicks in a bar telling my friend and I, that they will flash us if we buy them drinks.

Oh yeah like seeing a pair of t1ts for less then a second is really what I yearn for. :rolleyes: Needless to say some other fool in the bar pay for it and they got their drinks and left him with lighter wallet.
For the price of two drinks these days, you can get a BJ. I'd love to see their reaction if you said that.
 

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hahahahaha

attention *****s


i was once stupid enough to ask my girl mate to get me a drink from the bar while she was goin, i had no change tho so i had to giv her £10 for a £3 drink, she came back with £4, she had bought herself 1, she said she wud buy me 1 back 1 later

did i get a drink back? did i fvck
 
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