"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cobrajoe

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Before you ask, no i didn't get laid, get a gf, or even a kiss last night. but i did go out and had a hell of a time.

i went to a battle of the bands last nite with a chick and another one of her friends. it felt great. mainly because i wasn't the one following her around like a puppy, and i left because i wanted to and did not stay just because she was staying. along with some subtle kino along the way, made for a very fun night.

the main point here is to go out and have fun. don't worry if the girl likes you or not. do what you like and invite her along.

being a dj isn't about sex or girls. it's about making yourself better and just going out there and having fun.

Now get out there! Go have fun! that's what it's all about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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actually, she tried to put me in the friend zone a long time ago. there is a strange story that goes with that.

when i met her, we hit it off instantly. the only problem was that she started going out steady with someone just a week before. that was the reason i found this site in the first place.

i was stuck in the friend zone, but with some tips from this site i was putting up a fight and also made her bf jealous many times.

she just recently broke up with her bf and i have no idea what's gonna happen now, but i don't really care--i'm just in it for the fun now.
 
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