"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007

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i need to make it smaller, haw do i do it.

it's little too big to be used as a Avatar.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We don't have avatars here.

But try Adobe Imageready. Not photoshop, the OTHER one that comes with it.
 

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Originally posted by brucevangeorge
Not photoshop,
Why not Photoshop? All you have to do is open it up, then resize it...

Image > Image Size

Avatars for most forums are around 80-90 pixels wide and long.
 
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Imageready is made to handle animations. While you can use photoshop, you have to take the gif apart and resize and then put it back together. And photoshop only reads the first frame (static picture). So you can see the problem. I'm not sure whether CS2 (newest version) still does this, but I tried it in elements 2 and 7.0 and it didnt work.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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