"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Animalistic Truth

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I was sitting eating dinner tonight and I realized something. We are all animals. Men and Women at their core are animals. I thought this was hilarious.

If you think about it, at some point in time, the strongest survived off the weaker. There was no debate on wether someone liked you or disliked you. There was no social status, there was no CLUB, there was bare survival.

The alpha males survived because they were badass and would just eat whoever they wanted. Who knows what the women did, but they sure as hell didn't sit around and talk about boyfriends.

Now we have been civilized to the extreme. It is almost that we have lost our animalistic nature. Like people walk around wearing the newest fashion, contemplating how they can fit in socially.

But this is not reality. It is not the way the earth was intended to be. Or is it?

What is our purpose other than our own satisfaction, which case in point is animalistic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alkali

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The neanderthals were physically stronger.

They're gone now.

Darwin stands for a lot of things, not just brute strength.

Obviously, seen by the example above, strength alone does not determine the survivors.

The victors.
 

Bvbidd

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Social value is perceived as strength. Therefore it acts the same way, we are still animals we just perceive things differently to fit our lifestyle.
 

KontrollerX

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Since we have the ability to think unlike other animals our ultimate purpose is whatever each of us choose it to be.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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