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Anger. Anger and especially rage, are valid emotions that the “Matix”, the Feminine Imperative cannot tolerate. You as a man are not allowed to express this thing called anger. It’s dangerous as you’re told.

“People who don’t learn to control anger become murderers and rapists.”, you are told.

In an obscure way they are right but in a functional way they are so wrong that it will get you destroyed as a human being. In fact, it can get you killed. It is the one thing that the Feminine Imperative must suppress in men.

The natural biology of a man is the oscillating cycle (back and forth) of our endocrine system between aggression and flight. This is incredibly powerful and an EXTREME asset. Woman have no clue how this works or feels inside a man. When a woman starts talking about anger, she is talking out of her ass. She uses anger as a tool to effectively get what she wants. That’s all. We use it for a very powerful means of aggressive survival. If there is anything needed in the world today, more than the cave man, is aggressive survival.

Women are incapable of dealing with masculine anger. All her tools fall to the floor in pieces. She is suddenly converted to prey and she knows it. The aggressive nature of men must be suppressed. Probably our single greatest asset is aggression. Aggression is action!!! Sometimes we would rather be dead than fail at something important to us. That is absolutely alien to a woman where her survival IS the propagation of humanity. That is her biology and how it’s wired.

What is happening today is the reduction of this valuable trait in young boys. Sometimes even resorting to advanced, highly engineered medication to squelch probably the most important survival response a man can have. After all, the job of reducing young boys into automatons/production robots and feminized men requires drastic measures. Little do men know that this entire concept or paradigm is the cause of disastrous actions by men. You never, ever, suppress an emotion because it is socially unacceptable. First understand yourself. You are a man. You are an aggressive, fighting, killing if necessary, machine. You build skyscrapers or stores so women can go spend money and buy new cute boots.

The fur rendezvous of American and Canadian trappers were gold mines for women. The fur trading companies would buy the furs (pelts) from the trappers so they could spend money on the stores and goods that the trading companies brought in. Tons of beads and pretty things were brought in because the women went gaga over all the pretty stuff and spent the money after the trapper bought his needed supplies.

Men need to learn how to handle their aggression/flight chemistry without sacrificing his masculinity. The Imperative wants that all squelched and with the result of you walking around a “yes” man. Supporting women and social structure with zero or almost no return.

The importance of expressing rage and male aggression is crucial for your quality of life. I am a firm believer and there are vast amounts of evidence to support my assertion, that if you suppress this…you will be destroyed. The vast amount of men who have resorted to domestic violence were in fact driven insane because he suppressed his rage over her reduction tactics. Obviously, there are truly dangerous men out there, but they are a HUGE minority. Also, if you think playing shoot’m-up video games handles your suppressed rage and aggression, you are a blind fool. Video games are not action. It’s a passive aggressive learning curve. Funny how you can distract a man with a video game. Unbelievable.

First understand that you are full of aggression and rage, unless your testosterone has been driven too low to activate again. Then channel this aggression and put it to use to your own advantage. Piss off doing any of it for women. They don’t count. They are part of the problem.

Therefore, you have to be a man. If you suppress your aggression, you are most likely to explode at some point in the future. Never let someone put you on drugs for anything other than a true, definite medical condition. If this rage blows out, there’s going to be trouble. Possibly even suicide. This is not new. It just doesn’t serve the targets and goals of feminism, which is communism, to broadcast it.

Depression is not a medical condition. Anger is not a medical condition. Medical conditions are labelled that way so that they can dispense drugs. This isn’t rocket science. Depression is a word to describe a person who has been driven down to despair and apathy by their life conditions. Feminizing men against their biology will do strange things to them. You drive someone down and then call it a condition and then keep them down with drugs. If they blow a gasket after that…you take away guns and knives.

You must express your aggression and assertiveness and anger at your condition. How do you do that in the modern world where you’re expected to be another agreeable girl? That’s your task now. Hunt? Punching bag? Climbing mountains? Chopping on a stump with an ax? Beating a business competitor? Getting that pump in the weight room? Invest in a punching bag? Storm around the house screaming at the walls when no one’s around? How about all of the above. Use it. Harness it. Love that rage. Have a fantastic love affair with your rage, aggression and assertiveness. That’s how you get your manhood. Let that testosterone flow though your veins. That’s what a woman loves to feel coming from you. POWER. But she can never be part of the equation. She has her own place. Send her there.
 

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If you want to understand more about what suppressed rage can do to your mind and body, read the book called:

"Healing back pain" by John Sarno

John was a leading back surgeon in the world. Until he discovered the real cause. Did you know that there are millions of people walking around in the world with broken backs and bulged discs yet never feel pain?

Do not let the Feminine Imperative in political/social power, and its creator, communism/socialism, ruin and dictate your life as a man.
 

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Read David R Hawking Power vs Force.

Anger is more promising than apathy, depression, and the likes. It is a call to action. Clearly, there's more productive places of Being but anger can inspire you to lift, to get a better gf or **** my ex can be your red pill moment.

Guys need to be cautious because law is against men. Its a trail to resources and extraction. Anyway, pick a higher level of consciousness then anger but its a start nonetheless.
 

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Anger. Anger and especially rage, are valid emotions that the “Matix”, the Feminine Imperative cannot tolerate. You as a man are not allowed to express this thing called anger. It’s dangerous as you’re told.

“People who don’t learn to control anger become murderers and rapists.”, you are told.

In an obscure way they are right but in a functional way they are so wrong that it will get you destroyed as a human being. In fact, it can get you killed. It is the one thing that the Feminine Imperative must suppress in men.

The natural biology of a man is the oscillating cycle (back and forth) of our endocrine system between aggression and flight. This is incredibly powerful and an EXTREME asset. Woman have no clue how this works or feels inside a man. When a woman starts talking about anger, she is talking out of her ass. She uses anger as a tool to effectively get what she wants. That’s all. We use it for a very powerful means of aggressive survival. If there is anything needed in the world today, more than the cave man, is aggressive survival.

Women are incapable of dealing with masculine anger. All her tools fall to the floor in pieces. She is suddenly converted to prey and she knows it. The aggressive nature of men must be suppressed. Probably our single greatest asset is aggression. Aggression is action!!! Sometimes we would rather be dead than fail at something important to us. That is absolutely alien to a woman where her survival IS the propagation of humanity. That is her biology and how it’s wired.

What is happening today is the reduction of this valuable trait in young boys. Sometimes even resorting to advanced, highly engineered medication to squelch probably the most important survival response a man can have. After all, the job of reducing young boys into automatons/production robots and feminized men requires drastic measures. Little do men know that this entire concept or paradigm is the cause of disastrous actions by men. You never, ever, suppress an emotion because it is socially unacceptable. First understand yourself. You are a man. You are an aggressive, fighting, killing if necessary, machine. You build skyscrapers or stores so women can go spend money and buy new cute boots.

The fur rendezvous of American and Canadian trappers were gold mines for women. The fur trading companies would buy the furs (pelts) from the trappers so they could spend money on the stores and goods that the trading companies brought in. Tons of beads and pretty things were brought in because the women went gaga over all the pretty stuff and spent the money after the trapper bought his needed supplies.

Men need to learn how to handle their aggression/flight chemistry without sacrificing his masculinity. The Imperative wants that all squelched and with the result of you walking around a “yes” man. Supporting women and social structure with zero or almost no return.

The importance of expressing rage and male aggression is crucial for your quality of life. I am a firm believer and there are vast amounts of evidence to support my assertion, that if you suppress this…you will be destroyed. The vast amount of men who have resorted to domestic violence were in fact driven insane because he suppressed his rage over her reduction tactics. Obviously, there are truly dangerous men out there, but they are a HUGE minority. Also, if you think playing shoot’m-up video games handles your suppressed rage and aggression, you are a blind fool. Video games are not action. It’s a passive aggressive learning curve. Funny how you can distract a man with a video game. Unbelievable.

First understand that you are full of aggression and rage, unless your testosterone has been driven too low to activate again. Then channel this aggression and put it to use to your own advantage. Piss off doing any of it for women. They don’t count. They are part of the problem.

Therefore, you have to be a man. If you suppress your aggression, you are most likely to explode at some point in the future. Never let someone put you on drugs for anything other than a true, definite medical condition. If this rage blows out, there’s going to be trouble. Possibly even suicide. This is not new. It just doesn’t serve the targets and goals of feminism, which is communism, to broadcast it.

Depression is not a medical condition. Anger is not a medical condition. Medical conditions are labelled that way so that they can dispense drugs. This isn’t rocket science. Depression is a word to describe a person who has been driven down to despair and apathy by their life conditions. Feminizing men against their biology will do strange things to them. You drive someone down and then call it a condition and then keep them down with drugs. If they blow a gasket after that…you take away guns and knives.

You must express your aggression and assertiveness and anger at your condition. How do you do that in the modern world where you’re expected to be another agreeable girl? That’s your task now. Hunt? Punching bag? Climbing mountains? Chopping on a stump with an ax? Beating a business competitor? Getting that pump in the weight room? Invest in a punching bag? Storm around the house screaming at the walls when no one’s around? How about all of the above. Use it. Harness it. Love that rage. Have a fantastic love affair with your rage, aggression and assertiveness. That’s how you get your manhood. Let that testosterone flow though your veins. That’s what a woman loves to feel coming from you. POWER. But she can never be part of the equation. She has her own place. Send her there.
Great post man, one of the best I've ready on here. That's why guys who don't whither at the site of females these days are all labeled with the stigma of toxic male. They're doing their best to totally eliminate this in all western men. Once that's gone completely or even mostly, the west is done. We're well on our way.
 

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This is a good topic.

Anger is an emotion that when used properly can generate a lot of positive growth for a man.

But at the same time male anger can also be very destructive.

It's a double edged sword.

Young boys by the ages of 12 when properly mentored by men will know how to harness it and also temper it, in turn producing men who are better at controlling their emotions.

Women has no such control, each time their estrogen level drops, they'll get agitated easily, it's only by luck of nature that they're not physically endowed as us men, otherwise they'll be mass bloodshed everywhere.

But for the vast majority of men that's been brought up in the feminine imperative, there's a need to brainwash those men that anger is bad, this I can understand but it's merely a stop-gap measure.

The only sure fire way to use anger in its entirety is to train young boys from the ages from 4 onwards to 12 by MEN.

Boys must be forcefully taken from their mother's at that age to be trained by their fathers or by other men to negate the imperative imbued since age 0-4.
 

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Boys must be forcefully taken from their mother's at that age to be trained by their fathers or by other men to negate the imperative imbued since age 0-4.
I was totally with you up to this point, wtf!? Just no...
 

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I was totally with you up to this point, wtf!? Just no...
It's because you have not gone through the training I've had when I was a child hence ur inability to perceive its benefits.

But ur ancestors practiced it in the distant past and so have boys in every conner of the world. Its just not practised in the world as we now know it.
 

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It's because you have not gone through the training I've had when I was a child hence ur inability to perceive its benefits.

But ur ancestors practiced it in the distant past and so have boys in every conner of the world. Its just not practised in the world as we now know it.
I’ve read a lot about this. Even native Americans did this.
Male skills in every facet of their lives was taught this way.
Male students with male teachers excel even in our schools. There’s just not enough of them in the early grades. Provided they arent socialized minions.
There’s plenty for one to research this if they had a mind to.
 

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Great post man, one of the best I've ready on here. That's why guys who don't whither at the site of females these days are all labeled with the stigma of toxic male. They're doing their best to totally eliminate this in all western men. Once that's gone completely or even mostly, the west is done. We're well on our way.
You aren’t wrong @highSpeed. Except that it will, in the end, cause more suppressed aggression that can and will explode.
Many a boy and men has avoided prison and trouble by channeling that natural aggression with sports, boxing, adventurous behavior. One need only find his niche.

I remember some years back there were symposiums and think tank clinics that were conspiring to have concentrated protein (red meat), along with its bio available cholesterol used to manufacture testosterone, removed from the diets of boys and young men to reduce their testosterone levels. To make them more agreeable.
Today we have the soy boys. A completely re-engineered passive pvssy. Easily manipulated politically and socially.
When you read @DEEZEDBRAH posts and how he keeps harping on low testosterone? He is absolutely correct. The accepted medical levels of testosterone are way too low. This is NO accident. Your quality of life degrades rapidly.

Improperly channeling your natural aggressive nature into constructive and self serving endeavors will reduce you to a pathetic and easily manipulated man.
A man at 75 should have a testosterone level of around 700-800. There are young men out there with less than 500. The manipulation of girl diets shoved down men’s throats also contributes. Very much so.

The effort is to change biology through enforced or socially programmed actions. What they don’t tell you is that as long as men and women live long enough to procreate, there is no biological change in DNA.

Reducing men has really picked up since the 1950s.
 

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Next time your game is on and you are feeling that aggressive feeling flowing through you. Notice how women are calmer and more focused around you. It's the testosterone. Testosterone alone changes a man's vibe.

All women will admit how chaotic their minds can be. This is very destabilizing for her and she can cause a lot of upset and trouble. In the presence of testosterone, she straightens out. This is something that every man needs to be seeing for himself. If he can't even observe this, there isn't much hope for him.

The lesson that I found in this whole thing is that my testosterone is my birthright. As long as I thought like a passive, cuckable, socially docile gear in a socialized machine...I was unhappy and felt unworthy of success and other such nonsense.
I would struggle between high testosterone and low testosterone based upon how and what I was thinking. When I left my fighting career in the military and my place among that male environment, I started to deteriorate. I had to go through this passive slave environment to understand it.
This world seeks to docile up servicemen and warriors when they leave that world. When they could teach them to redirect and channel that valuable testosterone and drive to survive. The world needs many more men to throw off that girl yoke.
 
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Next time your game is on and you are feeling that aggressive feeling flowing through you. Notice how women are calmer and more focused around you. It's the testosterone. Testosterone alone changes a man's vibe.

All women will admit how chaotic their minds can be. This is very destabilizing for her and she can cause a lot of upset and trouble. In the presence of testosterone, she straightens out. This is something that every man needs to be seeing for himself. If he can't even observe this, there isn't much hope for him.

The lesson that I found in this whole thing is that my testosterone is my birthright. As long as I thought like a passive, cuckable, socially docile gear in a socialized machine...I was unhappy and felt unworthy of success and other such nonsense.
I would struggle between high testosterone and low testosterone based upon how and what I was thinking. When I left my fighting career in the military and my place among that male environment, I started to deteriorate. I had to go through this passive slave environment to understand it.
This world seeks to docile up servicemen and warriors when they leave that world. When they could teach them to redirect and channel that valuable testosterone and drive to survive. The world needs many more men to throw off that girl yoke.
Good thoughts man. I'll tell you, I've learned a lot of the last 5-7 years, albeit maybe a bit too late but I've started to take off the rose colored glasses and let me tell you, it's f*cked up out there.

My current wife, a f*cking disaster. Truth is though, it's pretty much all my fault because of what I put up with and what I allowed to go on. I've started to make changes in myself, avoiding gaslighting, stuff like that, although I'm not always successful at doing so. I'm honestly not sure if I can regain frame in this situation, so the changes are more for my sanity and happiness. I'm working on some other, bigger changes, things that will put me back in the driver's seat. Although truthfully, that's not going to sit well with her, so once I make those changes, I'm sure I'm going to gear up for a big pushback from her but I think ultimately, it will be worth it for me.

I can only wish I had sites like these when I was younger. I was totally blue pilled when I was in my 20s, f*cking wasted an entire decade on blue pill bullsh*t and playing along with the feminine imperative. I'd honestly say only over the last 5-7 years have I really started to be red pill aware.

I'm still dealing with some of the negative emotions related to that. I'm still dealing with how to best optimize my world while having kids with a self centered, aggressive, argumentative ahole. I don't want, strike that, I refuse to be a part time parent, so I'm still trying to figure out how I navigate the world with a hostile person whose sole mission is optimizing her and the kid's existence, all the while not giving a sh*t about what I want or need. It's depressing, emasculating and really sucks my energy levels down. It's honestly all I can do to keep my business afloat many days, surely not focusing on driving forward like I should.

In both of the instances where I really f*cked up with women, my spider sense was going off but for some reason (probably good p*ssy) I didn't listen. If there is one thing for guys, one thing that could probably eliminate most of the problems in the west, listen to your spider sense, it could save your life, it could save your happiness at least.
 

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I completely understand your world brother. Believe me.
 

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I was totally with you up to this point, wtf!? Just no...
What is it that makes you recoil about this? I know I once said that you could possibly be a woman in disguise.
Boys and men love being together. Learning together. Living together. Common purposes. Things of male in nature.
I can definitely see women recoiling and afraid when reading @Spaz experiences about boys and young men and how it’s best for them to remove them from total influences of the feminine.

That’s like a scouting trip. The big adventure to a boy. Unless of course he’s hopelessly feminized. A man would be very very open to his son learning man things and being with him on those learning adventures. Mommy will be fine.

Only women feel entitled ownership of male children. His father wants him to go tackle the world as a man should.
 
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I tell you something lads this site has opened my eyes to the feminine imperative and its aim to keep you off your path and onto theirs. Mothers relationships to their sons is a bigger problem than I thought. they perceive any female in the sons life is a threat. so the son is stuck in the middle is a battle between two females. or more - daughters nieces this is the part of the larger problem to keep you down in chad/cuck mode - fvuk that be a man and be proud of it stay on own path you will have true power. then you can have the pickings.
 

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What is it that makes you recoil about this? I know I once said that you could possibly be a woman in disguise.
Boys and men love being together. Learning together. Living together. Common purposes. Things of male in nature.
I can definitely see women recoiling and afraid when reading @Spaz experiences about boys and young men and how it’s best for them to remove them from total influences of the feminine.

That’s like a scouting trip. The big adventure to a boy. Unless of course he’s hopelessly feminized. A man would be very very open to his son learning man things and being with him on those learning adventures. Mommy will be fine.

Only women feel entitled ownership of male children. His father wants him to go tackle the world as a man should.
I don't like extremes. Any extreme, it's not a bias towards the opposite of what you think, that's just as bad. I follow the middle way, I seek balance.

Feminism is just as bad as the opposite.
 

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I’ve read a lot about this. Even native Americans did this.
Male skills in every facet of their lives was taught this way.
Male students with male teachers excel even in our schools. There’s just not enough of them in the early grades. Provided they arent socialized minions.
There’s plenty for one to research this if they had a mind to.
This is where the ideas of school originated. Since then, it's been corrupted and ultimately feminized. Look what Hitler did to the youth in Germany. Public schools have gone to total sh*t.

My opinion is that its best to keep these groups small. The Natives had it right. Nowadays, it's best to be trained by your father primarily, but helped along by a community group.

There are many things to learn from all walks of life.
 

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People don’t care about anger.

People care about anything that turns a man on. Men are conditioned to suppress their biological urges. And if they don’t, it should come at a huge cost.

How many guys on sosuave wouldn't care to get angry in front of a bunch people if Starbucks messed up their drink, someone cut them off, or the bank stole their money? How many same guys, except the top players on sosuave. would ask a 27 year girl out in front of the same bunch of people?

Much easier to yell at someone than to show your biological urge.
 

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I don't like extremes. Any extreme, it's not a bias towards the opposite of what you think, that's just as bad. I follow the middle way, I seek balance.

Feminism is just as bad as the opposite.
I don’t think anything about you. I am a decisive man. Better to be wrong than to be a Luke warm safe guy.

It just doesn’t add up. Leaving boys to be raised by feminine imperative parties that turn him into a noodle is pretty damn extreme.
 

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I don't like extremes. Any extreme, it's not a bias towards the opposite of what you think, that's just as bad. I follow the middle way, I seek balance.

Feminism is just as bad as the opposite.
Feminism has already existed since the dawn of time.

It's nothing new nor special.

What has changed is that the teaching of boys is taken over mostly by women.

How does a woman train a boy into a man when she has never even been inside a man's shoe much less walk in it?

All her ideas on how boy's must act is based on how she wants to be treated by men in her own life and that's what she is teaching those young boys, that's the feminine imperative being thought.
 
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