Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
And you thought your parents were nuts...
- Thread starter Señor Fingers
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
I thought i read something about mental retardation in the kids if you were to have them with your daughter or any immediate relatives because the genetics were too similar...true or false?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
damn!!!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
heard about this on the radio earlier today
that is a face only a mother could love.
I feel horrible for anyone that is involved including the wife.
comic_relief
that is a face only a mother could love.
I feel horrible for anyone that is involved including the wife.
comic_relief
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
That wife must've been some sort of massive simpleton to not realise what was going on. He father 7 of his own grandkids, 3 of whom lived with him and his wife - where did she think they came from? They wern't hers. "Oh yeah, they're !our daughters! kids, no you can't speak to her, she's. . . away"comic_relief said:
And where did she think he was going everynight, only to hear muffled noise coming from the cellar, and from behind the door he'd cunningly hidden behind the bookcase, only to return clutching a baby. And don't even get me started on the delivery of the chilldren, and the food he must have had to keep taking in there.
And blow me down, who the hell can't overpower a 70/80 year old man. Even a woman stupid enough to be locked in her own cellar could've given him a kick to the twig and giggleberries, if only for the sake of her children.
Peoples desire to be the victim blows me away sometimes.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
They say that she looks 20 years older than she is now, with white hair and wrinkles.
That is just so sad. And the poor teenagers who were born there and lived their whole life there! I can't even imagine.
That is just so sad. And the poor teenagers who were born there and lived their whole life there! I can't even imagine.