And You Thought You Would Never Get Over Her?

[orbion2013]

Ever fallen for a chick, so deep and hard... that you thought you would never get over her?

do you look back now & think what the f@ck was i thinking?


did you get over her?

 

[Don_Dom]

Yep. Yep. And yep.

 

[skinnyguy]

Yep….

I swear you're in a trance when you're in love with a girl.

 

[MtnMan]

Yep….

I swear you're in a trance when you're in love with a girl.

hah! well put

 

[Crownife]

Yep.

 

[Arthy]

It's funny, she was the reason i found this website, i even forgot she exists, you reminded me with this thread.

 

[Wolfbones]

yes, yes, and almost. almooost.

 

[Uncharted]

Yes and it always reminds me that the best way to get over a girl is another girl. Or more than one.

 

[Odisseo]

Ever fallen for a chick, so deep and hard... that you thought you would never get over her?

do you look back now & think what the f@ck was i thinking?


did you get over her?

Of course dude

 

[myyearofchange]

Yes and it always reminds me that the best way to get over a girl is another girl. Or more than one.

Yes to all three, and every LTR that I get into is with a BETTER girl than the one I had right before, so even when things don't work out with a certain girl, they just end up better later on. And yeah, meeting new girls always helps speed it up.

 

[The LadyKiller]

it always reminds me that the best way to get over a girl is another girl. Or more than one.

Exactly. This is true for me too. Once I find a new girl, I forget about the previous girl who I was hung up about.

 

[adam225]

It's funny, she was the reason i found this website, i even forgot she exists, you reminded me with this thread.

Same here haha.

 

[expos]

I remember I had it really bad for my high school girlfriend in my senior year. I had about enough of her and we sort of mutually parted ways for a week. Then, out of nowhere she gets with a guy I absolutely hated. Of course, like a fool, I tried to get her back and it didn't work. I was a MESS. I could barely go to school, eat, study, anything.

Then, they broke up 4 weeks later. And by that time I was still sort of on the fence about her and just about recovered.

Looking back, and seeing her a couple times after we had broke up, and seeing her on Facebook recently, I do wonder what I was thinking. She wasn't smart, not nearly as pretty as other women I've been with, and certainly not the nicest person. I will never look back at her and think "she's the one who got away!!!" lol.

I wonder what it is that makes us fall for the WORST women.

 

[joker79]

Just yesterday I bumped into my ex, I barely noticed her as I was walking fast, she seemed to be butthurt and I sincerely can't understand why. She didn't even say hello. well who cares. When she was with me she was always smiling and full of energy, but now... WTF!! was I crazy to date this girl? butthurt, unhealthy, she seemed a little bit fat and not caring about herself, no make up at all. Wow.Eventually I got it, now I can understand why she's butthurt: she saw me relaxed, friendly with a lot of girls, superfit after hours in the gym and always dressed to kill with james bond attitude... warning: hamster spinning!

 

[Johnny Alias]

Haha. Yes, yes, and over many... still working on one.

NC is huge. Gives your mind time to heal, to sleep, to replenish.

The mind is an evil thing. It is not consciousness. It obsesses about things that aren't in front of your face... the past, the future, her....

You are in this moment now. Remember that.

If you are focused on filling this moment with all things good and good for you... then you will find peace. Time is a great healer... but so is action.

This is the time for you to grow and be a better man... don't waste it.