"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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And there goes again one of those "moment" in which I am not in the mood

Who Dares Win

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Its happening again one of those moment in which Im not in the mood to going out put a sh1t load of work both before and during the night out, I dont think its depression since Im in a good mood all the rest of the day and Im performing good in my daily activities.

Point is, gotta shave, dress elegant no adidas shoes or tank top, then going to the fvcking club after minutes of queue, then go inside and see all the girls behaving as they had a "gold made pvssy" with an unestimate value which dont even bother to give positive sign, not to me in particular but even to tall good looking guys.

Then it comes the approach, a short line to gauge the interest and then again the b1tch mode where it seems like you're talking to queen Elisabeth despite the cvnt has a carrot IQ.
It seems they are told to behave like that as if they have to affirm their value, they check you out but do nothing and even when you approach they make no effort to make it work, all the work is on you.

Then the noise, the mass of people and Im not even talking about aiming at a one night stand, its getting harder even just to have a talk and relax, your same friends are impatient to meet girls yet do nothing untill you approach for them.

I sincerly ask myself if its really worth, its getting more annoying and more frustrating day after day, sure you get a chick and a ONS sometime but the following morning you still ask yourself if that was worth.

From some weeks I feel like a man who would like to read the newspaper but has to dress and drive till the shops in the cold rain.

Really hope its a momentary thing, anyone can relate?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I rarely bother to make myself look "good" when going out anymore, I got tired of getting all cleaned and dressed up and having women ignore me only to be practically tripping over them the next day when I'm in jeans, a t-shirt, unshaven and possibly even un-showered.
 

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It has always been thus, only now, the returns are diminishing. clubs were never my thing, always hated them with a passion!

club + alcohol + lots of women + cheesy lines = pu$$y.... x
if you are going to grab any action at a club, you have to hang around until the drunks just want to grab a guy, even then, how much fun is that?

there will be guys who do well at clubs, they will give you a different outlook, I hink they were and are , sh!t.
dont feel too bad and dont beat yourself up, the effort in clubs is rarely worth the pay off
 

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betheman said:
It has always been thus, only now, the returns are diminishing. clubs were never my thing, always hated them with a passion!

club + alcohol + lots of women + cheesy lines = pu$$y.... x
if you are going to grab any action at a club, you have to hang around until the drunks just want to grab a guy, even then, how much fun is that?

there will be guys who do well at clubs, they will give you a different outlook, I hink they were and are , sh!t.
dont feel too bad and dont beat yourself up, the effort in clubs is rarely worth the pay off
Well I don't consider myself like sh!t because I get some play at the club. You have to take it for what it is: fun. There's nothing to be serious about, heck I have girls approaching me while I'm minding my business and when I get their phone number they flop. When I make out with them they flop and even when I manage to but them to bed, they don't wanna talk to me after.

Bottom line, in my opinion, you take the club way too seriously. Dress good, and mind your business ( heck, bring some females you know or even a sister or a attractive cousin) it will be easier and you will get plenty of girls dancing with you, phone numbers and ultimately sex. Remember it's just a numbers game, can't take that seriously at all
 
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