"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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and so it begins

ubercat

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In the finest traditions of SS time to post a FR thread for journalling.

Focus at the moment is expanding my social circle from a handful of friends 10 years bof AFC LTRs took their toll.

But I ll approach chicks too just keeping it on the DL.

Sat night was blown. Rib injury kept me in.
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Sun mornings I go to the market - cultivating it as one of my local venues.
Chatted to a couple of the stall owners I'm making friends with.
selling pai

Saw an HB 7rt chick selling paintings.
Positive things
I saw her and approached immediately 3 second rule
Conversation flowed easily
I got some flirting and kino in
I asked for her phone number and got it on a card
I asked her out for coffee next Saturday and she agreed
She had been sharing her coffee with me and I use that to say I showed her coffee and that smoothed over anyway awkwardness
I used the you remind me of a good friend line so she's not totally sure of my intentions
We had plenty of things in common she's into the martial arts too so rapport was good

Negative things
Big negative was I stayed talking to long she actually said she should talk to other people arrrgh such a rookie chump move so she will probably flake
Saturday is too long ahead to set the date

Next step
She gave me two cups of coffee
So I was going to say really I owe you 2 coffees so so I think it's fair that I buy you a drink
I was going to ring on Monday night set up a date for Wednesday or Thursday

Obviously I'm very rusty so I'd appreciate your thoughts guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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amazingswayze

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rusty? nonsense.

ubercat said:
Obviously I'm very rusty so I'd appreciate your thoughts guys
:confused:
doesn't matter. keep practicing. what do you want from her, sex? if so, take it. assert yourself on these dates. it's not just about having good conversation. escalate. kiss her. make out with her. keep it going until you bang her. you probably know what to do already but it seems like you're lacking a bit of confidence. :rock:

make moves before she loses interest. spin plates just in case. good luck bro. :yes:
 
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