"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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and so it begins

ubercat

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In the finest traditions of SS time to post a FR thread for journalling.

Focus at the moment is expanding my social circle from a handful of friends 10 years bof AFC LTRs took their toll.

But I ll approach chicks too just keeping it on the DL.

Sat night was blown. Rib injury kept me in.
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Sun mornings I go to the market - cultivating it as one of my local venues.
Chatted to a couple of the stall owners I'm making friends with.
selling pai

Saw an HB 7rt chick selling paintings.
Positive things
I saw her and approached immediately 3 second rule
Conversation flowed easily
I got some flirting and kino in
I asked for her phone number and got it on a card
I asked her out for coffee next Saturday and she agreed
She had been sharing her coffee with me and I use that to say I showed her coffee and that smoothed over anyway awkwardness
I used the you remind me of a good friend line so she's not totally sure of my intentions
We had plenty of things in common she's into the martial arts too so rapport was good

Negative things
Big negative was I stayed talking to long she actually said she should talk to other people arrrgh such a rookie chump move so she will probably flake
Saturday is too long ahead to set the date

Next step
She gave me two cups of coffee
So I was going to say really I owe you 2 coffees so so I think it's fair that I buy you a drink
I was going to ring on Monday night set up a date for Wednesday or Thursday

Obviously I'm very rusty so I'd appreciate your thoughts guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rusty? nonsense.

ubercat said:
Obviously I'm very rusty so I'd appreciate your thoughts guys
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doesn't matter. keep practicing. what do you want from her, sex? if so, take it. assert yourself on these dates. it's not just about having good conversation. escalate. kiss her. make out with her. keep it going until you bang her. you probably know what to do already but it seems like you're lacking a bit of confidence. :rock:

make moves before she loses interest. spin plates just in case. good luck bro. :yes:
 
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