And now you get that nuclear love bombing

[Gamisch]

So..yous struggling. Lukewarm interest at best but...she is hot...big azz nice face yadiya. Her IL? Mwah...at best. You can feel it. Your pride and honour told you LONG time ago to feck that bytch and cut contact( she is nobody and won't ever be anybody to YOU. )

You grinding. Checking all those cliche boxes. The physical, the financial, the spiritual . You KNOW you should be valued at a higher rate, but yet you cant control what WOMEN feel. And for some reason that or those that understand your value never cross your patk..

You know you need some. So you keep entertaining EVERY woman that shows a glimpse of interest . One is better than zero right???


But then...shyte starts to shift. Suddenly women start showing you the EXACT behaviour yous been longing for. Women act like they suppose to. Feminine, submissive, letting you lead, adjusting to YOUR schedule.

It's like night versus day. But..you are beating to pulp by those lukewarm interested women. You are USED to getting rejected. So ..your sceptical behaviour might turn off these new wave of women ..


Give me your take on this gents..

 

[BPH]

Women are all different. My take is to just talk to more of them.

The girl I f***ed on New Year's Eve in Philadelphia was a Tinder match that I was unsure of because she seemed low interest. She wasn't very responsive, the responses didn't seem that interested, she was staying with friends while visiting, so her place was a no-go...there were just so many things that led me to believe she would be a waste of my time.

It got to the point where I wrote her off and watched the ball drop at a local bar, which was an hour away from her. I was still having text conversations with her up until that point when I finally bluntly voiced my concern to her; I told her that I think she's very attractive, but that it sounded like she was more interested in being taken out by SOMEBODY, rather than being interested in going out with ME.

As you might recall, she responded that if she were only interested in going out, she would've just gone out with her friends.

I made the drive, met up with her, and ended up f***ing her in the back seat of my Prius later that night.

There was also the girl from LR - 100 who wanted our date to be early enough that she could hang out with her friends afterwards. I initially wrote her off too, explaining that I understand she's graduating and wants to spend time with her friends, but that she's not really all that interested in going on a date then.

I figured that was the end of it...but then I woke up to messages from her continuing the conversation, looking to make a compromise. And I ended up f***ing her after our second date.

So basically, TL;DR don't self-eject and burn down the interaction at the first signs of resistance. If she's showing you interest, even a slight amount, it can be worth taking the chance on letting things play out.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I’m trying to fully get what you’re saying here. Are you implying you’re more drawn to women who give you lukewarm, hot-and-cold energy over the ones who are actually down for you from the start? Is it because the lukewarm woman is hotter, higher SMV, or more suitors?

Personally, unless there’s something way off about them, like missing teeth, extremally thirsty, a bad personality, addictions like heavy smoking, or being severely out of shape, I tend to let the ones who are into me come through. I give them what they’re looking for. I can entertain them. I can be shared. I don’t discriminate.

The hot-and-cold one? She can get it too if she wants.

Edit: I’m probably missing a bunch of other parameters that determine why I wouldn't take things seriously with certain women on a romantic level.

 

[Redwood]

So..yous struggling. Lukewarm interest at best but...she is hot...big azz nice face yadiya. Her IL? Mwah...at best. You can feel it. Your pride and honour told you LONG time ago to feck that bytch and cut contact( she is nobody and won't ever be anybody to YOU. )

You grinding. Checking all those cliche boxes. The physical, the financial, the spiritual . You KNOW you should be valued at a higher rate, but yet you cant control what WOMEN feel. And for some reason that or those that understand your value never cross your patk..

You know you need some. So you keep entertaining EVERY woman that shows a glimpse of interest . One is better than zero right???


But then...shyte starts to shift. Suddenly women start showing you the EXACT behaviour yous been longing for. Women act like they suppose to. Feminine, submissive, letting you lead, adjusting to YOUR schedule.

It's like night versus day. But..you are beating to pulp by those lukewarm interested women. You are USED to getting rejected. So ..your sceptical behaviour might turn off these new wave of women ..


Give me your take on this gents..

It's an unintentional chess move. But they'll be alright...