Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doc Freezy said:2 Texts actually. I'm NC'ing this girl for like 5 days now, anyway thats in another thread.
Just need a response for "So why are you being so weird towards me?"
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"So you gonna tell me what I did for you to hate me?"
bukowski_merit said:i actually have the best one i ever got saved in my phone (after me not responding to 2 very similar messages to the one this girl sent you):
"im sitting here in a parking lot outside work with my mind going in a million diff ways wondering why no contact since tues. and how im going to go home like this. you have no idea what this is doing to me."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
There are two issues here.Doc Freezy said:2 Texts actually. I'm NC'ing this girl for like 5 days now, anyway thats in another thread.
Just need a response for "So why are you being so weird towards me?"
&
"So you gonna tell me what I did for you to hate me?"