"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And frosh week begins...

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Any pointers? Because I'm sure I'll do fine if I go with the flow and drink and do random stupid **** with everyone else, but I'm sure I can use this time more effectively.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Sperminator

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This is the best time to meet girls and get their numbers. A lot of girls don't know a lot of people and they want to meet people so you should go and talk to as many as possible.
 

donjuan87

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Exactly right. This time has huge potential for you to build a HUGE social circle. After you have done so, cut it down to the best people by hanging with the ones you like better.

This time has SO MUCH POTENTIAL! Just grab your balls and approach!
 

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Any pointers? Because I'm sure I'll do fine if I go with the flow and drink and do random stupid **** with everyone else, but I'm sure I can use this time more effectively.
- introduce yourself to everyone, don't wait for people to introduce themselves, be proactive.

- go for all the parties! don't miss out on any events! the more you go the more people you are going to meet and the more you can expend your network.
 

SnowBlind77

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ya man, a cell phone is a good tool, collect those nu,bers. if youre gonna score big time in school its during this frosh week, before the chicks know anyone and before they get a reputation. talk to EVERYONE! last year at my frosh week it was great because everyone was very open. and im sure it will be the same for you. just talk to all the chicks and all the dudes you can, find out whose cool and who will be making the good parties and take it from there. other than that just enjoy yourself man!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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