Analyzing a simple situation

[GuanYu]

Did you notice a pattern here? She only responded to your text and only replied with text. I know a few people like this - they just text, never talk on their phone.

There is this woman that I’ve known for about 4 years. I don’t think that we have ever talked on the phone, although we have had many lively chats via text messaging. Currently her phone plan is text only. Try to call and you get a message as if her phone was out of order, yet you can text her all day long.

I'd believe this if she hadn't previously implied that she would give me a Call. (Never bothered to btw)

I'm pretty sure she is playing games/hard to get which I don't have time for. I feel that at 26, I shouldn't have to play those games anymore. I'm of the "life is too short" mentality. Being a challenge is interesting, playing games is another.

If by chance she ever does send another text or something, it's not going to hurt me by just using texts I guess. Otherwise she won't be hearing from me again

 

[guru1000]

There could be about 1001 reasons why she didn't call back initially.

To actually sit back and reflect on WHY shows several things,

- You have alot of time on your hands
- You are scarce in plates

The other day I ran into a girl on the street. She showed high IL , grabbed her number and left. I didnt call her for 2 days, not because I was STRATEGICALLY playing aloof. I am busy. I call her today and she didn't return my phone call. I totally forgot about her until I read this thread.

Don't ask WHY.

Does a billionaire think about the $5000 he lost?

A DON JUAN never thinks of 1 woman until it's exclusive.

 

[jophil28]

women are experts at sizing up a man and what he will put up with. men on the other hand are horrible at sizing up a woman and judging what they will end up dealing with

THis is one of those "set in stone "truths. It is so true it makes me squirm.
And because we are "horrible" at sizing up women we sometimes wind up with a bewildering mish mash of power struggles, mind games, lies and cheating and expreme disrespect . WE cannot work out how such a hot passionate woman who wanted to f**k like a rabbit in the first two months is now treating us like we are little more than a PEST.

 

[jophil28]

I feel that at 26, I shouldn't have to play those games anymore. I'm of the "life is too short" mentality. Being a challenge is interesting, playing games is another.

Believe me son, they never quit with the games. NEVER EVER.
Even when they are cellulite covered, droopy and shriveled they never stop acting and playing their teenage style games. Even when their market value is batting zero and their face resembles an alligators a$$hole, and they could play soccer with their own t1ts, they still act like princesses. It never occures to them to change their behavior or adjust their thinking in spite of the fact that they cannot get a date and haven't had sex for 10 years.
Their habitual thinking is "there are no good men left ".
See, there is your problem.