"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just for my own benefit, and I'm trying to decipher the ******** what do you all think this means....

"I feel like that "instant intimacy" thing that I was talking about is seriously at play here. You've never felt the need to shower me with compliments or pick up every tab, and that's a period of courtship that I think is important. I have a feeling you think I'm traditional in all the wrong ways, but that's kind of a deal-breaker for me. I think we're too similar in ego and too divided in the "should be's" of life for me to be comfortable."

Just want insight into the female mind. Oddly enough, many of this ones complaints are the reasons I have been super successful with women in the past. Like only giving compliments when I wanted and truly meant it.

Thanks,
Homey
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have theories but she doesn't give enough context; besides, it would be humorous to reply to her with "Huh?", expecially if the two of you have a witty conversation style.

At a minimum I think she's saying she wants more attention ("courtship")
 
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You've never felt the need to shower me with compliments or pick up every tab
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Sounds like she's used to being the centre of a guys attention....

Perhaps a high maint. chick?

How about this reply...

"The reason why I don't find the need to do these things, is that you've not proven to me yet that you are worthy enough... I am a traditional guy - but not a fool"....

LOL. Watch the sparks fly.
 
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Originally posted by NewMan
Sounds like she's used to being the centre of a guys attention....

Perhaps a high maint. chick?

How about this reply...

"The reason why I don't find the need to do these things, is that you've not proven to me yet that you are worthy enough... I am a traditional guy - but not a fool"....

LOL. Watch the sparks fly.
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Beautiful Newman!


Remember that actions speak louder than words. It doesn't matter what BS comes out of her mouth. If she seems like she is losing interest then don't worry about trying to analyze her words. See thru the crap and act accordingly.
 
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Sounds like she is looking for an AFC boyfriend. She must watching too many movies or reading too many romance novels.

Guess the key here: Don't change - you are who you are and if she doesn't like it then too bad.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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