Analyze This

[homey72]

Just for my own benefit, and I'm trying to decipher the ******** what do you all think this means....

"I feel like that "instant intimacy" thing that I was talking about is seriously at play here. You've never felt the need to shower me with compliments or pick up every tab, and that's a period of courtship that I think is important. I have a feeling you think I'm traditional in all the wrong ways, but that's kind of a deal-breaker for me. I think we're too similar in ego and too divided in the "should be's" of life for me to be comfortable."

Just want insight into the female mind. Oddly enough, many of this ones complaints are the reasons I have been super successful with women in the past. Like only giving compliments when I wanted and truly meant it.

Thanks,
Homey

 

[JohnJones]

I have theories but she doesn't give enough context; besides, it would be humorous to reply to her with "Huh?", expecially if the two of you have a witty conversation style.

At a minimum I think she's saying she wants more attention ("courtship")

 

[NewMan]

You've never felt the need to shower me with compliments or pick up every tab

Sounds like she's used to being the centre of a guys attention....

Perhaps a high maint. chick?

How about this reply...

"The reason why I don't find the need to do these things, is that you've not proven to me yet that you are worthy enough... I am a traditional guy - but not a fool"....

LOL. Watch the sparks fly.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by NewMan
Sounds like she's used to being the centre of a guys attention....

Perhaps a high maint. chick?

How about this reply...

"The reason why I don't find the need to do these things, is that you've not proven to me yet that you are worthy enough... I am a traditional guy - but not a fool"....

LOL. Watch the sparks fly.

Beautiful Newman!


Remember that actions speak louder than words. It doesn't matter what BS comes out of her mouth. If she seems like she is losing interest then don't worry about trying to analyze her words. See thru the crap and act accordingly.

 

[flexion_]

Sounds like she is looking for an AFC boyfriend. She must watching too many movies or reading too many romance novels.

Guess the key here: Don't change - you are who you are and if she doesn't like it then too bad.

 

[averagejoe]

Newman that is a great response. I have to remember that.