Analyze this

[ANIRBAN]

as enjoying myself in a club..and while sitting a cute blond sat beside me and I start with a question and she answeered and we did some chit chat but it was noisy. Her friend aarives and she goes to dance with her . I stayed cool finished my drink and then danced a bit far from the duo. Slowly her friend sits at the side and then she comes and tells me my friend is high..I said its okay after all its Friday nite ! she smiles..then she started dancing wityh me and but glances her friend time and again and gestires her to come to the dance florr.but she declines..then I stpped in went straight to her friend , held her hnad and dragged her between us..I sawboth their faces glitter up and smiles everywhere around me..so we three starts dancing..then the band stopped and we return to our small corner in the bar..then to look not so sticky I excused myself to the toilet and spend a good 7 mins there and also took a stroll in the bar. When I return she is sticking very close to a white guy whom she barely knows and also her friend..they were talking very closely and she is all smiles..then I stand near her and she does not even notice me nor her friend..the to save my ass I slowly kept my glass and exit that place..now I am non white..but look good and dress well..now why did she not wait for me..why she had to get close to that guy...is it a white thing or she had a low IL level due to cultural ismatch..I am sure she was up for the nite..but I felt sort of un DJ to barge in or call her from behind when she is soo engrossed with her new mate who she met within my 7 ins of dissapearance..and not interested in me with whom she danced for around 30 mins..with some Kino and eye contact..explain please..thanks

 

[Grey Fox]

Its a club. Don't take anything personal and be sure to focus on more than one woman. When you do decide to try one, nothing wrong with striking up a convo after dancing, getting the number and splitting. Forget all those other worries and just take what you learn and save it for the next time.

-Grey Fox

 

[aBAzLLnA]

Never over-analyze situations...especially this kind where the setting is in an impersonal place.

 

[Le Parisien]

What is this "white thing" you are talking about? I really don't get it...

Yeah just stop over-analyzing, it's a club, nobody owes nobody any proper way of saying "sorry I'm NOT interested, sorry something better came up, sorry I don't feel it (anymore), I'm just a tease you sorry ass" etc etc...
Don't take anything personal from club settings.

 

[Dee-Zy]

You are sweating this 'white thing' waaaaaaay too much. What's with that insecurity?

If she was with another guy that was your nationality, would you have thought that he is skinnier or bigger than you?

Work on your confidence buddy.


Unless you want to get plastic surgery and become the next Michael Jackson.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don't spend 30 minutes with drug-infested hos!!!

You should have talked to her for 10-15 minutes and gotten her number and said good-bye!!!

 

[squirrels]

She's playing the field like anyone else. She wants to see what she can get for the night, so of course she's going to chat other guys up in your absence. If you made a good impression (which it sounds like you did), then you have nothing to worry about. YOU should be looking around too.

Instead, what did you do? Go chat with other chicks? No. Go back to her and talk to her? No. You SAT IN THE BACKGROUND, most likely looking visually disturbed and intimidated by the presence of another guy.

You NEXTED yourself.

 

[chicksrock]

hahaha...
chicks around the world are the same....
THEY ALL DO THIS a lot....!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lots of stuff like this has happenned to me in similar ways.....

OBVIOUSLY she is trying to make you jealous...to show you she has power....and also that you will need to chase her..its a bit of a power game...


SOLUTION:
1) chase her
2) game other chicks, make her fvcking jealous...and then make her chase you