"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Case 1:
Super Quick Rundown
- The ex, virgin. Dating a LDR guy. Wants to come down in summer to chill with me.
- Called the ex (I am 'ldr dating' her best friend, which includes very little talking...so it's tenative breakup from my side)
- Got into sexual conversation, she tried giving me advice on ldgf, and girls (sluts) in general about how just no, haha.

Anyway, I'm going to point out a few lines...

(past..)
Me: "You know if me and you drink together...it'll be really badddddd"
Her: "mmmm,. yeah....I know."

*still on that dating crap*
Her: "Well, why don't you find a girl that isn't a slut?"
Me: "Umm..like you"
Her: "Durr...you're dating my best friend.. (1)"



*got her talking about how guys in past fingered her*
Me: "So..how did it feel?"
*..She would't say*
Me: "Well..I probably could take a really wild and random guess and be probably right...judging by the way my exgf was when I fingered her...she was grabbing things.."
Her: "Uhh.yeah..well....yeah..."
*after more crap..*
Me: "Oh no! You just blew my mind telling me that, I'm imagining sh!t"
Her: "What do you mean..."
Me: "Well...ummm...no wait, I can't tell you..."
Her: "Nono, I want to know.." (2)
Me: "Well....there's you....."
*....*
Her: "And you..."
Me: "Yeah...I'm imagining that...we....yeah....umm...yeah"
Her: "Heh..I see"
Me: "I have one question,....good or bad?"
Her: "I dunno" (3)
Case 2:
HBChickLeg and HBBlackHairedGirl (Heather)

Found out HBChickenLeg is 15..that's a nogo for me. (I'm 19 :)). Heather, she wasn't working when I was in with Chicken Leg, but between her and the staff, they told me 'Heather told us to tell you she had a boyfriend'. I asked when she worked next, they said tomorrow. Cool, left.

Next day comes, I don't show up to her work. Good. Keep her thinking methinks.
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That's some rough memory recall..

Ex:
Anyways, the whole conversation, especially during the touchy parts..she didn't shy away at the idea..from her voice....and from the conversation...it looks like she's thought about me and her..haha.

Just wanted your view point, as I'm in the process of trying to prime my ex up so when she comes down... (and after a couple shots of vodka (she + vodka = flirtier)...I want her on my bed. I want her virginity so bad, lola.
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Chicken and Hair:
Anyways, I didn't admit that I liked her, but I guess they kinda figured it out a little. I've probably failed at this one, but I smell a inking of bs from that cover story, and I can't put my finger on why I smell it. Anyways, I haven't seen her since, and when I do, I plan on being aloof, and if I get that horrid question, she's getting the 'I think you'd be a cool friend'. Beat the biatch to the ljbf line, and give me some goddamn control in flirting and headfvcking. Meh.

I haven't been doing much other then this sh1t for PU or anything, as I'm more wrapped in my life rather then anyone elses...been that way for two months..so I think my game (especially with in person) is weaker then normal. Need to get out more...mmhmm.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Other mentionable stuff (from lying in bed just going bleh)
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I'm spinning plates.
March Break, I'm visiting another ldgirlfriend...
I have a girl coming down on Easter to see me..another ldgirlfriend...

As for local life, I'm so damn caught up in my life at the moment I don't have any time to go on dates or anything. It sucks.

Meh.
 

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Or just to say Hey, make them smell my farts (Vulpine)..anything.
 
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