"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Analyze this STUPID simple letter.. sighs..

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DJnoob

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Yes, this subject may sound stupid to you guys but not to me.

ANYWAY,

i used to work with this girl and lost contact after she quit. She is in a relationship to this day with this guy by the way. I didn't want to fvck her or anything. She lives in temecula

3 months later, she invited me to become her friend on myspace.com. That was a shock! Never thought that would happen, to become her friend AT LEAST.

So, i accepted in invitation couple weeks later to become my friend and today, i sent her a simple letter:


Message sent to crystal:
" sup crystal, whats cracking? "

Her response:
" nothing much... did you graduate yet?? i'm finally on summer vacation! hooray!

well have fun in riverside!"



I know im over analyzing this but i want to know whats your take on this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pmpJake

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Looks like a friendly message... Myspace girls tend to be especially e-slutty anyway, so you can't take the flirty tone too seriously; and especially don't try to read anything into it.
 

Kerensky

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there's nothign special about that. nothing flirty about that. dude, just purge all thoughts of a romantic relationship with her from your head right now. Seriously, you are right about overanalyzing. It sucks, but start not caring about her (why should you?) and soon you'll stop this overanalyzing business.

Good job!
 

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sometimes a dog is just a dog

theres plenty of myspace hoes that put out, if thats what u want, go find one..
 

DJDamage

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It means nothing. You are just another name when she feels bored to talk to someone on Instant messaging. That is a step lower from a friend! I rather have nothing because its just a waste of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AMF

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I've never said it before, but go read the DJ Bible.

You are clearly desperate to the point of seeing things that are not there. Thus, you are what it is called round here an "AFC". Still, I got an extra post out of this, so thanks.
 
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