domingo_mandingo
New Member
Hey guys,
I used to frequent these forums when I was younger (2002-2004) and became familiar with the mindset and many of the techniques. Since then I have had some girlfriends, made out with heaps of girls, slept with many and acquired some good dating experience. Yet, I am still far from being a master.
I've been dating a girl recently (I'd rate her as 6-7), who suddenly went cold on me. I want some insight into what the hell went wrong, for future experiences. My plan was to build comfort and attraction over the first few dates, before making any sexual advances. It went a little something like this...
Date 1: Movies
Went and saw couples retreat. Average movie. She liked it though, so I pretended it was funny. Played it cool, told some value demonstrating stories (after the movie), she was digging me. Didnt initiate any Kino.
Date 2: Pool
Went out and played some pool. This was a good opportunity to start initiating some kino, so I was touching her, tickling her when she was taking shots etc. She was highly receptive to this, laughing, touching me back etc.
Date 3: Feeding Ducks
Went to lake to feed the ducks. When we arrive, there is a sign on the street: "dog exercise area". She looks at me, and I say "Yes, this I why I brought you here". She took this in good stride, laughing and punching me playfully. After feeding the ducks I threaten to throw her in the lake (obviously joking). For the sake of emotional stimulation I pick her up and literally dangle her over the water :crackup:. This got her pretty excited. After this we went back to my place, where we watched a DVD. I was holding/carressing her, and got some full on kissing action going on by the end of the DVD. She started rubbing against me etc, at which stage I told her it was time to take her home (gotta keep them wanting more). So I drove her home and got another kiss when she got out.
By this stage I'm sure it's on and plan to hit that sh!t next time I see her
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A week passes, and we don't see eachother as exams are on and I want to study. Last Friday, she asks me to visit her at work and play pool with her (she is a bartender), however I had to decline as I was working too. In response I ask her if she wants to go play minigolf on saturday, however she said that she was "busy this weekend".
I havn't heard from her since, and she hasnt replied to my text massage (I have only sent one since). Not the behaviour of an interested women, however I was getting such strong indicators of interest only a week earlier.
What happened???
I used to frequent these forums when I was younger (2002-2004) and became familiar with the mindset and many of the techniques. Since then I have had some girlfriends, made out with heaps of girls, slept with many and acquired some good dating experience. Yet, I am still far from being a master.
I've been dating a girl recently (I'd rate her as 6-7), who suddenly went cold on me. I want some insight into what the hell went wrong, for future experiences. My plan was to build comfort and attraction over the first few dates, before making any sexual advances. It went a little something like this...
Date 1: Movies
Went and saw couples retreat. Average movie. She liked it though, so I pretended it was funny. Played it cool, told some value demonstrating stories (after the movie), she was digging me. Didnt initiate any Kino.
Date 2: Pool
Went out and played some pool. This was a good opportunity to start initiating some kino, so I was touching her, tickling her when she was taking shots etc. She was highly receptive to this, laughing, touching me back etc.
Date 3: Feeding Ducks
Went to lake to feed the ducks. When we arrive, there is a sign on the street: "dog exercise area". She looks at me, and I say "Yes, this I why I brought you here". She took this in good stride, laughing and punching me playfully. After feeding the ducks I threaten to throw her in the lake (obviously joking). For the sake of emotional stimulation I pick her up and literally dangle her over the water :crackup:. This got her pretty excited. After this we went back to my place, where we watched a DVD. I was holding/carressing her, and got some full on kissing action going on by the end of the DVD. She started rubbing against me etc, at which stage I told her it was time to take her home (gotta keep them wanting more). So I drove her home and got another kiss when she got out.
By this stage I'm sure it's on and plan to hit that sh!t next time I see her
.A week passes, and we don't see eachother as exams are on and I want to study. Last Friday, she asks me to visit her at work and play pool with her (she is a bartender), however I had to decline as I was working too. In response I ask her if she wants to go play minigolf on saturday, however she said that she was "busy this weekend".
I havn't heard from her since, and she hasnt replied to my text massage (I have only sent one since). Not the behaviour of an interested women, however I was getting such strong indicators of interest only a week earlier.
What happened???