"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ANALYZE this REMOVE OBSTACLE/ISOLATE TARGET method!

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hey guys, please analyze this method for me, and tell me if it's effective, or what I could change to make it better!

Scenario: I see a HB with a friend or two.


*I approach the target and friend(s)*

Me: Hey ladies, can I get your opinion on this?
Girls: Okay.
Me: My friend ____(fake name, maybe like Dan or something) thinks that wearing pink is just plain wrong. Is he incorrect?
Girls: (Gives opinions, probably will say that "Dan" is wrong.

****(At this point, I'd agree with the friend and try to find openings to neg-hit the HB)****

Me: So what do you think he should do? (To the HB)
Her: He should wear pink, he'll find out for himself!
Me: Well, I dunno, what do you think? (To the friend)
Friend: He should get other people's opinions on how pink suits guys best.
Me: Yeah! I couldn't have said it better myself.

****(I'd try to neg-hit the HB a wincy little more, bond with her friend)****

Me: (talk a little more on clothes, fashion, and basically branch out from what we've been talking about.)
Me: Hey ladies, I have to run, it was great talking to you both.
(To the friend) Before I go, can I steal your friend for just a quick minute?
Friend: Sure.
Me: ****(grab the HB's hand and isolate the target)****
Me: Hey, during the last few minutes I spoke with you and your friend, I think that you're pretty awesome. I'd like to get to know you better. Let me get your number!


The thing is, I'm not so sure what to do after I isolate the target. Please analyze this method and give me suggestions on what to do after isolating.

Thx.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After you isolate the target, attract the target. Go through some story routines or do an ESP to gain her interest. All the while, going through the kino escalation. After you've done a good ten to fifteen minutes of attracting her, let her talk. Ask open-ended questions and make it seem as if she is attracting you. This will not only make her more willing to give you her phone number, but will also raise your chances of her actually picking up the phone. After you have recieved enough IOIs, you might as well just go in for the kiss close and get her number afterwards. I'd much rather set a time bridge at the same time.

-Damian
 
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one small thing, avoid : Hey Ladies. Just take the word ladies out of your vocabulary. yes i know its a small detail, but it sets up the tone where its obvious to the girls that you're trying to pickup.

"Hey guys" is that much better because its very causal and goes under the antipickup radar.
 
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