"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Analyze this girl's behavior. Interested?

Meisterman

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So I recently finished my semester at college and got back to my summer job at a pizza place. This girl, we'll call her A, has worked there since the fall and I've already worked with her a handful of times but felt really no attraction towards her at all. It was just straight business/work related. I saw her as a coworker and nothing else. She has a boyfriend too apparently but she has literally never mentioned him once.

This past year I've focused a lot on improving myself, inner game primarily. But also confidence, working out, have some nice color on my face and a new haircut.

Just last week, like 10 days ago, I got this sudden gut feeling inside that A might have some attraction towards me. Her eyes would light up when I talked to her and she'd bite her lip sorta. She'd laugh at most things I say and follow up. I'd always have her attention and she never blew me off in conversation. I was also on a 2 week nofap and felt like my senses were sharpened and I was more aware of subtle cues of attraction.

A day later, A added me on Facebook. Within 4 hours of accepting her request, she changed her profile picture for the first time in a year. Really not a big deal, although odd timing for sure. I then made a post a day later and she liked it immediately. (I rarely post on FB so I haven't had any activity since then).

Then last Sunday as she was leaving work she says "See you Thursday" because I had Monday off and she had Tuesday + Wednesday off. But I never told her I was off Monday. So A literally checked the schedule to see when we were both working together next or she had no way of knowing.

I was curious so I went to A's Facebook page and noticed she doesn't have her boyfriend listed under relationship. There's basically no pictures of them, no posts, her relationship status is hidden so it says nothing, even though they've been together for over 2 years. Then I went to her boyfriend's page and it says "In a relationship with _______". So he has her listed, but she doesn't have him listed. If I didn't already know she had a boyfriend, there would be no way of knowing she's not single.

I HATE to bring Facebook into this but I felt it had some important details that may more clearly reveal her motives.

So that's where I'm at right now. I'm not trying to fu*k her immediately. And definitely not looking for a relationship.

Please don't give me the whole "Don't **** where you eat" "Don't stick your pen in the company's ink" "Don't date co-workers" rants. I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW.

I'm just trying to find out what this girl's deal is, and what to think of her recent behavior. Just being friendly? She wants to be fu*ked? Tired of her bf? Not sure, it just seems too many things adding up for there to be nothing behind this.

I highly doubt she would try escalate on her own since we work together and she has a bf, and it would be out of character for her to do so. She's definitely not a slvt even if my post made her seem that way.

But if I made a push for it who knows how she'd react. Not saying I'm gonna do it though.

Also it's not like she acts like that towards me at work all the time. Bottom line is we both still have sh*t to do, and I'm out of the store a majority of the shift driving/delivering. So take it with a grain of salt, but what I said still holds true.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RangerMIke

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Really? You needed us to tell you she's interested? Yes. Ask her out. If she says she has a boyforend, be cool about it, say he's a lucky guy and to let you know if things change, when walk away. Don't try to be her friend be an acquaintance/work colleague.

She's about to branch jump and her poor BF doesn't have a clue. If it's not you, it will be someone else so don't feel bad for him. If she is really interested she will start to chase you.
 
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