"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyze My Workout Routine For Adding Muscle Mass

BBX

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Hey guys,

I've made horrible attempts in the past yo gain muscle mass and with the summer here and a lot of free time, I'm older and wiser and now know what i'm doing.

My past failures in this area were a result of me doing bad research or none at all. Now I fell like I know what i'm doing.

Keep in mind that I do not have access to a gym. All I have is some weights what and a chin up bar.

Allright so two days ago I began with 3 sets of 10 chinups. In that time, I've have been getting a lot of protein and I already feel results from just that one day. I am sore a fuk right now and don't know when I can continue to my next workout of 3 sets of 10 squats at a weight that is good for me to start with.

Basically what i'm asking is how am I so sore from 3 sets of 10 chin ups, and when should I start my squats and then continue from that? And this amount of soreness is good right?

This is a rough idea of what my routine is for a couple of weeks until I feel it needs to be intensified:

Wednesday- 3 sets of 10 chinups
Sat- 3 sets of 10 squats (not sure of weight yet)
Mon-3 sets of 10 deadlifts " "
Tues- 2 sets of 10 of a chest exercise that I need to research

Any input is greatly appreciated. I've made a lot of mistakes in the past and wouldn't like to again so thanks. I still consider myself ultra noob in this hhaha.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sam3083

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Yes! the soreness is good. What you've done is make thousands of microscopic tears in your muscles. But dont worry. Your body will adapt to this by rebuilding the muscles stronger and thicker then before, ready for next time (this is why we have to overload - increase the weight).

I would suggest you throw in more then one exercise per workout. Maybe 3 or 3. Just keep them specific to the muscle group you are working. For example, some barbell bicep curls, and a shoulder press would be good for wednesday. Or, you could throw in some abdominal work one day, etc.

I doubt the one exercise will be enough to see decent gains for a sustained period of time.

Other then that your split (the different days you do exercises) seems ok. Just dont work a muscle group if it is still sore (it needs time to repair, or you will go downhill by tearing the muscle fibres again, without them recovering. Which is why so many beginners overtrain and see no gains).
 

donjuanjovi

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There are many good routines on the net, so don't go paying 29.95 for starting strength when you can get all the information you need for free.

Start reading.... Everything you can get your eyes on. Read the stickies on the top of this forum. Go to wannabebigforums.com and read all those stickies too. Your best friend is knowledge. Size and strength will come much easier if you know what the hell you're doing.
 

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I agree with jovi. If your prepared to search around a little bit, you can get all the knowledge you need. and knowledge is power.
 

stronglifts

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BBX said:
Hey guys,

I've made horrible attempts in the past yo gain muscle mass and with the summer here and a lot of free time, I'm older and wiser and now know what i'm doing.

My past failures in this area were a result of me doing bad research or none at all. Now I fell like I know what i'm doing.

Keep in mind that I do not have access to a gym. All I have is some weights what and a chin up bar.

Allright so two days ago I began with 3 sets of 10 chinups. In that time, I've have been getting a lot of protein and I already feel results from just that one day. I am sore a fuk right now and don't know when I can continue to my next workout of 3 sets of 10 squats at a weight that is good for me to start with.

Basically what i'm asking is how am I so sore from 3 sets of 10 chin ups, and when should I start my squats and then continue from that? And this amount of soreness is good right?

This is a rough idea of what my routine is for a couple of weeks until I feel it needs to be intensified:

Wednesday- 3 sets of 10 chinups
Sat- 3 sets of 10 squats (not sure of weight yet)
Mon-3 sets of 10 deadlifts " "
Tues- 2 sets of 10 of a chest exercise that I need to research

Any input is greatly appreciated. I've made a lot of mistakes in the past and wouldn't like to again so thanks. I still consider myself ultra noob in this hhaha.

Try this BBX: Beginner Strength Training Program
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ItWasntMe

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you should try having 2 or 3 exercises in your workout with at least 1 day off in between for cardio like HIIT (high intensity interval training).

Something like:

Mon.
Bench Press 10x3
Squats 10x3
Pullups 10x3

Tues.
HIIT

Wed.
Military Press 10x3
Deadlifts 10x3
Lunges 10x3

Thurs.
HIIT

Fri.
Swiss ball push up w/ prone jackknife 10x3
bent over row 10x3
Weighted crunches 10x3
Chinup 10x3

Sat.
Long distance run (30-60 mins worth at a light-moderate pace)

Sun.
Off

Reps:
Week 1 - 10x3
Week 2 - 5x5
Week 3 - 15x2

All with 60 seconds rest between sets. Keep in mind that this is just an example workout. If you want search 'Waterbury total body training' if you get some access to equipment or 'death by bodyweight' if you don't have any equipment period on google. For both searches click on the first link. Remember a program can only produce decent results for 4-6 weeks before plateauing and I personally change my workout every 4 weeks.
 

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Go with what stronglifts posted
 
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