"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DjBozz

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Hallo, I am DjBozz from the US, I am a junior in highschool ,I just don't know who I am , I don't feel positive or negative about my self , I dont like my self which is what my issue is, but two things people always say about me is that i am smart and funny,but people laugh at majority of my jokes and ask me advice on homework, projects ,but I feel like as though they are bull****ing me but they , I am currently enrolled in technical school in the IT-Networking shop. Kinda lazy and i think some of the "norms" of society are bull****.i look bad because everybody always says I look asian(my main descent is italian) i feel as though people really don't care about me. I always have two conflicting ideologies, one being more optimistic one more cynical. i can't do anything with my hair its so wiry and messy.I could care less to appease people and I enjoy messing with people .Since I started grades school i thought of myself as a less of a person since i was in Special Ed classes. I kinda just want to get an idea of what i am.:flowers: :crazy: From what i said where can i improve? I just want to work game on girls and leave i have no desire for a relationship.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Read more. Read Pooks book, Tolle stuff, self development stuff, etc. This type of books helps you build important beliefs for success.
Invest in yourself. Go to the gym or develop other skills, don't just be one of many, be exceptional. Remember you are the star in the movie that is your life.
I too have been not giving a duck about girls for awhile now. However, everyday I tried to improve and take action on other subjects,and I am better now than before.
 
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