"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Really Pretty Girl requested me as a friend on Myspace. I accepted the request and posted ;) as a comment because when she requested me she put a :). She also commented one of my pix.

It seems this girl is coming off of some kind of bad relationship with an ex. I can easily tell this by reading her profile. It does though by all accounts seem that shes looking for somebody to chill with.

So the question I have is how do I get at this girl to maybe hangout or something without coming across like im desperate? In Internet Dating you can put something that she might take the wrong way, So I dont want to blow it by not wording certain things right.

So everybody.. tips and advice on how you would play it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Really Pretty Girl requested me as a friend on Myspace. I accepted the request and posted ;) as a comment because when she requested me she put a :). She also commented one of my pix.

It seems this girl is coming off of some kind of bad relationship with an ex. I can easily tell this by reading her profile. It does though by all accounts seem that shes looking for somebody to chill with.

So the question I have is how do I get at this girl to maybe hangout or something without coming across like im desperate? In Internet Dating you can put something that she might take the wrong way, So I dont want to blow it by not wording certain things right.

So everybody.. tips and advice on how you would play it?
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get off the computer and on the phone asap. once on the phone set up a meet in person. don't beat around the bush. i can't give you the exact thing to say, i can only tell you what you need to do. good luck.
 
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Alright I got the girls number and messaged a couple of times back and forth through myspace. But as I read her messages she seems a bit tentative, she wants to go out for lunch but she still seems to be stuck on that guy. I feel like I could be setting my ownself up to be flaked on.
 
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