"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Really Pretty Girl requested me as a friend on Myspace. I accepted the request and posted ;) as a comment because when she requested me she put a :). She also commented one of my pix.

It seems this girl is coming off of some kind of bad relationship with an ex. I can easily tell this by reading her profile. It does though by all accounts seem that shes looking for somebody to chill with.

So the question I have is how do I get at this girl to maybe hangout or something without coming across like im desperate? In Internet Dating you can put something that she might take the wrong way, So I dont want to blow it by not wording certain things right.

So everybody.. tips and advice on how you would play it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Really Pretty Girl requested me as a friend on Myspace. I accepted the request and posted ;) as a comment because when she requested me she put a :). She also commented one of my pix.

It seems this girl is coming off of some kind of bad relationship with an ex. I can easily tell this by reading her profile. It does though by all accounts seem that shes looking for somebody to chill with.

So the question I have is how do I get at this girl to maybe hangout or something without coming across like im desperate? In Internet Dating you can put something that she might take the wrong way, So I dont want to blow it by not wording certain things right.

So everybody.. tips and advice on how you would play it?
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get off the computer and on the phone asap. once on the phone set up a meet in person. don't beat around the bush. i can't give you the exact thing to say, i can only tell you what you need to do. good luck.
 
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Alright I got the girls number and messaged a couple of times back and forth through myspace. But as I read her messages she seems a bit tentative, she wants to go out for lunch but she still seems to be stuck on that guy. I feel like I could be setting my ownself up to be flaked on.
 
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