"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello I am new here and just want to introduce myself. I have read a handful of things about attracting and pickup women, and I am getting pretty good at, and then I stubled into this forum. I have been working on my game for about 3 months and nothing but great results. I am in HS, and am 18.


I intended to kiss-close, but her massoose (lol, spelling) showed up as I was moving in.
What do you mean by that? I am new to this whole DJ and PUA internet thing, maybe some slang I am missing. What I got out of it was ...... You were getting ready to try to kiss her and then her mom showed up?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No, no slang there, I just can't spell... the word for a person who gives massages. She said she used to get migraines, and that the massages once a week help with that.

Haha, nah, her mum walking in as i'm closing? That would be WAY too stereotypical, I think I would have just exploded in laughter if that had happened.

ilikebeef, thats an interesting way of looking at it I guess. Reading it again, I think you're definately onto something.

Either that, or she'll think you go to the movies alone. Which could work either way, it depends on the kind of person you are really.
 
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Haha, got another msg from her today while I was at school, just asking how my day was going etc.

Spent the afternoon with a friend who's possibly the most badass guy for 20km. He managed to **** a girl within 3 hours of her calling a wrong number and getting him instead of her boyfriend. gg. Anyway, we spent an hour having lunch down at Jesters and approaching some of the girls wandering past, but no luck for either of us.

He suggested a double date this friday/saturday, so i'm game, not sure about meagan though.

I'm happy with the way things are going, because of the huge amounts of kino happening. Now, i've got a whole bunch of cards I can play; I'll probably go with the drawing away slightly one. I'm interested to see her reactions when she's no longer getting as much physical contact as before.

Syn.

edit: on that last note, if i changed anything during the double date, she may put it down to my friend being there. Which basically nullifies anything I do out of the norm. If i go further, she'll think i'm being exhibitionist, and if I drop off a little, she'll think i'm, maybe, embarressed around my friend (?) or something ridiculous. Having other people around might stifle anything I try at this point, so i'ma not sure about the double date.

The plus side is, my friends bring out my full funny. Honestly, I'm at my most hilarious when with friends, and my last gf noted that. So she'll get to see my in full colour, rather than black and white, as I am now (metaphorically speaking).
 
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