analyse this convo

[lamobatsman]

Hey guys. This is old but I finally got a chance to post this. I wanted the guys here on SS and girls to analyse a piece of text convo that I had with a girl I had posted about months ago. The background I can put on here for anyone who forgot.
I guess I just wanted peoples opinion on this particular convo cos I cant read womens IL and maybe a part of it is closure for me. I know im very beta and am trying to transform myself. I have taken everyones advice on this situation with the girl and am moving on. I think it would be helpful for me to understand these convos and realise when to exit from these types of women next time
This conversation took place in mid November ( 3 weeks before she was to fly in). I had first started talking to her in beginning of October. I will post other text convo from before which I would be grateful for you guys to analyse and give feedback as to how I shudnt or should do things. Thank you

Me: hi
Her : hi
Me: how u?
Her: gd u?
Me: gd. u dont write me this week
Her: i do in whatsapp. but you dont wrote too
Me: i just looked now. i wasnt sure if u changed ur mind aboout us
Her: aha.like every day or what!?
Me: nooo silly.on sunday i tell u about me wanting to come to germany and i find flights and u didnt seem happy or interested.
Her: i told you why
Me: u didnt get my other message on watsapp then did u?i found flights on 18th jan (fri nite) to 20th jan ( sun nite)
Her: mhm
Me: is that good?
Her: could be yh
Me: i want to book them. cos idd like to visit you in your new apartmentyou want me to visit you?
um sorry i didnt write to you this week. i have been busy. i have missed you though. i miss that we used to chat all the time every day
speak soon bye ( hope u like that picture of london i sent you on fb!
i have a lot of work today but im still here on fb chat for you if u want to talk
u pissed off at me? iv done something wrong? i still reli like you and have feelings or you and am looking forward to taking you out in two weeks
me: 12:19
hey u online how has your week been?. just wondering if you have sorted accomodation wen u come to London. i found a nice hotel for 50 pounds a night near chelsea
her: how long it takes to london city?
Me: you want me to book it for you? i dont mind booking it for you and lisa. migght be easier from here. doesnt matter. would you guys like to go see a musical? the west end in london is quite famous for that!
Her:its better when you book the hotel?
Me: well cos im here in england might be easier cos i can call them etc. you know what i mean?
Her: yh i understand
Me: can i still crash roound yours in the hotel on fri nite?

Her: yh i think its no prob
Me: only if its ok then goodim coming pacha with you so i might just give you the tickets wen we go togehter?i have booked a restaurant at 7pm dont forget!i do hope we get some time ourselves that weekend
Her: i hope so too
Me:can i book my tickets to germany? i want to come and seee youuuu haha
her: what do you think about when you book your tickets after i was in london? i think its much better then now
me: yes i think so too. i miss talking to you u know that?
her: i'm here
me:no u know wat i mean
her: yh i do
me: we used to talk so much all the timecan i ask you something?how come u only reply to certain messages?like earrlier today i sent u a reli nice long message and u didnt say a word
her: i have no time boy i have to work yh?!i'm only in fb cause of you but pff ok...i'll go
Bye
Me: babe dont say that. u take it wrong i didnt mean that. i know u have to work i go to lunch now ok
Me:hi im bak from lunch. we speak on the weekend. i know ur busy. have a great day today hope u feeling well x hey can we talk on the phone later today or skype if ur free?
Her:No Time tdy
Me: Ok. maybe this weekend?
Her: Dont know.Have to do a Lot of Things

Me: im trying here i know
Her: Cause of the movement
Me: yes of course
you think after u move it will change for us? like we have more time to talk and skype and stuff?
Her: Yh
u promise?
her: I try
me: im findind this quite hard at the moment but i will wait for you
before u go i just wanna know. u still want to be with me? and do the long distance?
i want to

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[FairShake]

Sounds needy dude. Asking a girl why she hasn't talked to you comes across as desperate. Don't even bother asking that unless it's a joke...but in your case I'm going to recommend you just don't ask it. Plus you are doing way more talking than her. Recognize she's not into the conversation at the moment and do something else. She keeps it up and she's not into YOU and talk to someone else.

 

[Uncharted]

Easiest way to read IL is to ask her out. Yes = interest. Anything else = no interest.

Whenever I text it's mostly 3-4 texts max from me, they are all delayed a few minutes, and if the conversation isn't to make plans, I stop responding when she stops asking questions. The first time she makes a statement, I don't write back.