"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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salsipuedes

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Opinions my friends, opinions, first of all, i am currently dating two other women so don´t come to me with bull, theres this woman i am sort of dating ( i dont even know what to call it anymore), at first she came up to me, later she apparently got upset because i sent her an email telling her she was moving to fast, we see each other about twice a week and man, i have no ****ing clue whats going on with this weird relationship.

I am pretty quiet myself, not in a rush, sometimes i feel like holding her hand, sometimes i dont, sometimes i am affectionate, sometimes i am cold, i call 3 days in a row, and then i stop, i have told her i really like her, and i have told her i could see this relationship getting serious, on her part, she has told me she would love if this could one day lead to marriage, has introduced me to her family, and is also affectionate on and off with me. We dont kiss, we are not a couple yet, and we are just getting to know each other, she comes from a 4 year relationship with an ******* who was very insecure and made her go tru hell.

Is my attitude the one causing her to also be on and off with her affection towards me? when i do get affectionate shes very into it and gives it back, and when i dont, she seems to back off.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuanMonk

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You sure are putting a lot of time and energy considering you have "two other women."

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

Bonhomme

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Analize this?!?!?

This forum's supposed to be about picking up women, not men.
 
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