“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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An unexpected journey, exception: He enters her world

jhonny9546

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Yesterday I was checking my mail, and in the mailbox I found a small letter with a photo on the back.
I read the name and it immediately came to mind, since I hadn't recognized him from the photo.
An old friend of mine.
We haven't seen each other in 15 years...
He moved away with his family when he was 15, but we've always stayed in touch.
After seeing his photo, we talked, and he told me his story:


At 18, he met this girl, the same age as him. A woman with few red flags, a close-knit family, a wealthy heiress.
He started working for her in their family butcher shop, since work in his area was scarce and He had no qualifications.
10 years later, he's the shop manager and they're planning opening the 2nd shop.
From what I remember, He was a very nice guy, the kinda of guy that would easly make you earn clients with his kindness. So working with people at a shop it's perfect for him.
In the meantime, he got married and had a son, who is now 5 years old.
Now, she has a wealthy grandfather too, who owns a basketball club that he promptly handed over to my friend, and their 5 y.o. son will soon play there for the team.


This is a bit of a contradiction in the world of Sosuave, since this man didn't create resources on his own, but entered as a "supporter" of an already existing/established group. (Usually, that's something a woman would do: enter a man's world and support him.)



So just by taking this route, we can say that in 15 years, he managed to:
1) Improve his financial and social standing (a strong position within the company, and a highly valued association since he's seen as associating with these wealthy people).
2) Meet great people (access to networking of wealthy).
3) Find a hobby he enjoys (basketball) and where he can play a leadership role.
4) Being seen as highly valuable externally (by those in his social circle or close to him like parents of the kids who play in that basketball association, etc..)
5) Having become a parent and having plans for his son (he also likes basketball)
6) Costant access to good life (He told me his lifestyle is not luxury like, but they have every comfort they need)
7) He told me how great his sex life was in the last 15 years (didn't expect that)



He is a middle man, 170cm, even not good looking, but as I've said before, He always got that "nice" guy vibe and kindness. A very genrous man.
We can see that, 15 years ago, he was an ordinary man, but today we can say that taking that unusual path has given him a lot of life experiences...
 

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I had some new updates after a new chat with my friend.
He confirmed to me that all these things that happened to him over the past 10 years were actually things he wasn't very prepared for.

Just to give you some examples, he was put in a job where he didn't know anything, but he learned on the job.
He found himself in a leadership or management position, without actually knowing what he was doing.
Sometimes he searched online, sometimes he improvised.
But alle these people around him, just say him as a "relevant" and "high status" person, just because he was in that role.

He told me that he thought he had truly been blessed and sanctified by the Lord.
 
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