"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An unexpected girl

Blue Phoenix

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Let´s say you´re talking to a friend and suddenly a girl appears and start talking to your friend. Now the friend is totally focused on the girl and you´re like "left behind".

What´s the best way to deal with it? Is It better to say see you later? To wait for him? To ask to be introduced to the girl?

This situation leaves me really uncomfortable.

How would you handle that?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, it depends on the situation. If we're at a party or a club and it happens, no big deal cause it's plenty of other people around to speak with. Now if it was just my friend and I and that happnes, I'll say "hey i'll be right back" and leave.
 

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This stuff is bound to happen. What you need to do is give ur friend some space. He will (hopefully) do the same for you should the situation reverse itself. Just say you're going to head over and get some food, or a drink at the bar or something. Walk away and give them their space.
 
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