"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An ugly wh0re tried to charge me for sex.lol

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Robert28 said:
I'm not the best catch in the sea but I've dated MUCH MUCH hotter girls then her and SHE'S trying to get ME to pay for sex?
I think you're looking at it the wrong way. She's not saying "I want sex, but the only way I'd have it with you is if you pay me". She's a working girl. She's saying "I want to get paid, in exchange I'll give you sex". The money is the goal for her, not the sex. She probably saw you leaving alone and figured it was worth it for her to take a final shot.

I'm sure I would have found her annoying also, but I wouldn't take it as an insult.

I'm also a little surprised that the guys posting here are so anti-prostitute. Usually guys in the manosphere are complaining that prostitution should be legalized so as to help balance out women's power in the dating game and the feminized west.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This thread is 4 pages too long. Although the exchange between Syrio and Danger was very good. :crackup:


Robert28 said:
I kept being approached by this girl who was a 6 at best (pasty white, LOTS of tattoo's, jet black hair, teeth were not that white.lol). Any time I would leave my group of friends and go off by myself here she'd come. I was absolutely NOT interested whatsoever and I tried to get that point across by my body language and extremely short answers to her questions, plus I walked off rom her at least 3 times.
This is how a chick would act.

Dude, why were you acting like a chick with poor body language giving her short answers? Why didn't you just tell her straight up the first time you weren't interested? She would have left you alone and your ego wouldn't have gotten hurt.

You: "Why don't you go bother someone else? You're not my type. Bye."

See how easy that is? That's what a guy does when has no interest in a chick. He tells her that, then she goes away. If you did that, it would have been over. Sounds to me like maybe you did want her hanging around you. You kept talking to her all that time.

Robert28 said:
I didn't care that she kept trying to talk to me whenever I'd walk towards the bar, go to the bathroom, or break away from my friends. I was nice to her, not overly nice, but I answered her stupid questions she asked me such as (so what do you do for a living? Where are you from? etc).
Yeah, sounds like there was some interest on your part.
 

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hahha listen to you guys trying to win an internet argument...such a waste of time.

OP acted more of a douche than he should of been, end of story. :nono:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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