"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An ugly chick blocks a hot chick in college

doomhammer1212

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This should be a really easy problem to fix.
I'm taking this class in college, I made small talk with an ugly girl one day and for whatever reason she has taken a big interest in me, now is always sitting next to me right away and talking all the time, hard to ignore her. Meanwhile there is this real cute chick that sits behind me, we've done some flirting back and forth but not much. Problem is as soon as we get to talking the ugly girl comes in and starts telling some lame story and is very awkward. It's hard to know how to respond the best way. I feel like I can't even ask this girl out because I need at least 5 or 10 minutes to lead the conversation in that direction, time I don't have. What do I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PDubb75

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Catch her after class... or just tell the ugly girl to hold on for a second because she rudely interrupted.
 

Allurre

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Isolate the chick girl outside class somewhere and talk to her. If the other chick starts stalking you, then you really have to put some sense into her. Problem solved :)
 

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Or do another thing that I did. Sit with the hot chick in an area where there is no chance for he to sit next to you. That is what I did and the old chick leaves me alone while I talk to the hot one :)

- comic_relief
 
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