"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An ugly chick blocks a hot chick in college

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This should be a really easy problem to fix.
I'm taking this class in college, I made small talk with an ugly girl one day and for whatever reason she has taken a big interest in me, now is always sitting next to me right away and talking all the time, hard to ignore her. Meanwhile there is this real cute chick that sits behind me, we've done some flirting back and forth but not much. Problem is as soon as we get to talking the ugly girl comes in and starts telling some lame story and is very awkward. It's hard to know how to respond the best way. I feel like I can't even ask this girl out because I need at least 5 or 10 minutes to lead the conversation in that direction, time I don't have. What do I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Catch her after class... or just tell the ugly girl to hold on for a second because she rudely interrupted.
 
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Isolate the chick girl outside class somewhere and talk to her. If the other chick starts stalking you, then you really have to put some sense into her. Problem solved :)
 
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Or do another thing that I did. Sit with the hot chick in an area where there is no chance for he to sit next to you. That is what I did and the old chick leaves me alone while I talk to the hot one :)

- comic_relief
 
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