"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An open letter to the mods and The owner of this site

Should there be a Field report section?

  • Yes

    Votes: 13 36.1%
  • No

    Votes: 2 5.6%
  • Let's test it out and see where it goes

    Votes: 18 50.0%
  • Only if Solo posts pics of hot chicks again

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • Total voters
    36

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Huffman

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I like reading field reports, because they are one of the few things that is "real" around here. At least as real as it gets on the internet, if the writer was honest. There's so much "what if" and theories going round here, and I always liked to read what some people actually do. You read some stuff and go "oh I can imagine myself doing that" etc.

To each his own I guess, but the stories are good motivation. On the other hand, there's not too many of em going round... but if you decide to open a board then I'll contribute.

Why not link the hidden "Success Stories" forum back to the main page? Surely there would be no harm in that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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