SharinganUser
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penkitten said:
Would that be because it was for success stories and not fail stories?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Would that be because it was for success stories and not fail stories?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Huffman
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I like reading field reports, because they are one of the few things that is "real" around here. At least as real as it gets on the internet, if the writer was honest. There's so much "what if" and theories going round here, and I always liked to read what some people actually do. You read some stuff and go "oh I can imagine myself doing that" etc.
To each his own I guess, but the stories are good motivation. On the other hand, there's not too many of em going round... but if you decide to open a board then I'll contribute.
Why not link the hidden "Success Stories" forum back to the main page? Surely there would be no harm in that?
To each his own I guess, but the stories are good motivation. On the other hand, there's not too many of em going round... but if you decide to open a board then I'll contribute.
Why not link the hidden "Success Stories" forum back to the main page? Surely there would be no harm in that?
ARrocket
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I just posted in this...unfortunately, it looks like nobody can see itpenkitten said:
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.