"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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An Open letter to nice guys (Hypergamy gone rampant X1000)

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Don't know if this is a repost or not but ISH, I've said it before and I'll say it again. Chicks like this aren't born this way society coddles them and so do their parents. This is why chicks are entitled to the 6th!

Dear (Too) Nice of Guys:

Please wait for us. You’re not “too” nice. That is a myth. A lie. A spin on what some might call a gentleman. We will come to our senses as quickly as we’ll stop going to the Hangge Uppe. Unfortunately, some of us still enjoy stumbling out at 5 a.m…and falling asleep on our rooftops because we thought it would be “nice to watch the sun rise.”

But please wait for us. You guys seem to have it together, most of the time. The bouncer doesn’t recognize you at Benchmark and the bartender doesn’t know your favorite drink. You usually make it to work on time. You eat at other places than Chipotle, Boston Market, and Portillo’s (but I’m not opposed to those…). You don’t know the difference between fancy wines and neither do I — which makes me comfortable. Could a girl ask for anything else? Of course. My point is, you have the basics. The outline. You might not notice our new reverse ombre lowlights or Jack Rogers sandals — but you know when we’re upset and could use a glass or two of wine. The best part? You know when to just hand us the bottle.

Don’t give up on us just yet. We know these guys don’t want to date us; we’re not even lying to ourselves anymore! Eventually, we will learn to hate unreturned texts and exhausting games of cat-and-mouse. We’ll learn to say no when a guy asks us to “come over and watch a movie,” and yes to the guy who asks us to dinner (Topo Gigio, anyone?).

Give it a little more time. I prommmmise (for real this time), we’re growing really sick of the “game.” Or as a friend affectionately calls it, “the hunt.”

My mom’s token advice is to “make sure you can have fun digging a ditch with the person you’re with.”

I’m not so much of an outdoorsy girl, but I would rather go digging than hunting. TC mark
http://thoughtcatalog.com/natalie-platt/2012/10/an-open-letter-to-nice-guys/

Cliffs:

Feminist writes articles telling nice guys to wait while girls are done slooting around

Says that she knows girls pick bad guys but want nice guys to wait after they have been pumped and dumped and are shrivled, old and not good

no more blog reading for me......

I hope she is trolling....yet I don't think that may be the case

On another note this just confirms something we all know gents, the more higher value you are (or that a woman percives you to be) the easier it is to get poon

Are you the guy taking her to dinner? or the guy inviting her over for "movie night" for the first date?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Old as the hills and written by a man. Women aren't that self aware. Still cleverly done though.
but it has her name and picture at the bottom tits...and if it is a man who wrote this then he did a great job
 

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( . )( . ) said:
I could swear I've seen that "just wait for us" story years ago. Gender genie still says it's a man, could be wrong.
Yeah, I remember something very similar to this being posted here a few years back, and it was confirmed that it was written by a man.

This may not be the same one, I'm not sure. The picture at the bottom could be part of the "joke". The "has a thing for bad boys, but you already knew that" bit sounds suspicious.

In case this is on the up and up, I would consider it a red flag that the entire first half of the letter is filled with references to alcohol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dear Tvits,
"Old as the hills and written by a man"Yes definitely a Man!
 

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Guys "Mock" me for being hitched all the time. sluts like this, is why I laugh at them. lol @ guys who think i'm a dope for passing up a wonderful, hot woman with her head on straight who loves me, to "spin plates" like this. I wouldn't give this **** hte time of day in real life.

I got more important **** to do in real life than deal with self entitled sluts.

**** YOU • a day ago −
MADAM, DO YOU FVCK N1GGER GENTLEMEN?
LOLOLOL that made me laugh IRL
 
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