Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

An Odyssey

Sammo

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If you want to be unbelievable - you have to do what the unbelievable do, this is a fact. I used to believe you could take it easy and improve slowly in one aspect of your life at a time and you will eventually 'be the best', which is true but only to a certain extent. The main problem with improving slowly and steadily is it lacks the change to provide inspiration, thus making you think your not really changing and starting back where you started.

It's a boring cycle that slowly chews up the years that are your life. What is really needed is excitement, you need to do many things youve never done before, you need to push yourself and find out all your limits, you need to bleed, sweat, & cry.

So here is my challenge to you, take every area of your life that is relevant to you and set an extremely hard to reach goal, then start working towards it. Dont set a time limit, just have it in front of you.

Once you have all these crazy goals written up in front of you, you realise something, life sure can be crazy, & exciting. This realisation is your first inspiration to start chasing this goals, and it doesnt last long! So make sure you act now while you are inspired.

You may be wondering why i said dont set time limits, well its simple really. If you dont make the time limit, then your mind puts that down as a failure and moves on, when in fact those goals are your life! They are what you will be striving for, for the rest of your life unless you complete them! So get to it, let that realisation of lifes craziness inspire you to action.

I'll give you an example of the sort of goals you can set.

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Physical health
  • Stick to workout consistently for 12 weeks
  • Stick to eating plan for 12 weeks
  • Start tanning consistenly 3 times for 12 weeks
  • Don't masturbate for 12 weeks
  • ETC.

Imagine if you did the 4 things above for 12 weeks, where would you be in 3 months? A much more attractive person i imagine.

Girls
  • Make eye contact with 5000 girls
  • Approach 1000 girls (IE. Tonythetigers 1..1000 thread)

This is the guts of seduction, after you have approached 1000 girls i can garauntee you that fear will be a thing of the past

Academic
  • Revise every day after school consistently until the end of school
  • Do assignment as soon as they are given to you

You may notice that these goals you have to start now or you wont be able to complete them, just makes it so simple to see that if we want what we expect then we have to work for it

Money
  • Start a business
  • Dont spend a cent of your salary for 12 weeks
  • Get a job

Developing good habits for when they are needed

Passion
  • Find your passion
  • Be involved in your passion for at least 2 hours every day

The most important thing ;)

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Remember this is just an example, everyone is at different levels so they should have different goals. Also, there are probably more areas to your life then that, that was just a quick example.

Good luck, and have fun ;)
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Maeisgood

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I think I need a passion. Where do you find these? Nothing really interests me very much anymore.
 

Mr.Style

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I've noticed a couple of people on this site recommending that we should stop masturbating.Why?What good is this going to do other than giving you blue balls?
 

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self-control. But that is basically it. To me, I want to find another way to increrase slf-control, b/c I do not want to decrease my testosterone lvl.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Zaine
self-control. But that is basically it. To me, I want to find another way to increrase slf-control, b/c I do not want to decrease my testosterone lvl.
Not masturbating would increase your testosterone levels...
 

noots

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just gotta say awesome post. self-improvement is IMO one of the most important things ive gotten from this board. pook says to think your the prize, why not become it? (probably u or some1 else that said that). ive been struggling with my goals simply because im taking things slowly and its just eating away my life. ive gone a couple weeks without changing my bad habits, so this was just the boost i needed to just take it up a few notches. dont wanna look back when im 20 and still be in the same boat.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Originally posted by souporman
Not masturbating would increase your testosterone levels...
If over the course of 6 months 2 twins were to b studied on testosterone levels. One didnt ejaculate. One ejaculated every day, except the 4 days before the test. The second twin would win, in a landslide.

Stop thinking not masterbating increases testosterone. It makes you all sound ****ing retarted.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Im not your mother. Run a search yourself.

But saying you want to increase testosterone by not masterbating you are saying that you want to increase your muscle mass by not stressing your muscles (aka exercise). Youre body develops by counteracting stress. Having deficient testosterone after ejaculating will stimulate your body to produce more. The more your body must produce, the more efficiently it will do so.
 

Cheatz

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Im not your mother. Run a search yourself.
No, if you're trying to prove a point with anything you should provide facts about your claims, else you'll sound like you're speaking out of your arse.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Actually, no. I volenteer my time to come here and help out people who arent as fortunate as me. I am not going to ****ing lie to you, and laugh about it - "haha i got em all to masterbate more!!!"

Look at yourself. Are you as good at this as me? No? Ok, so shut up, and quit interrogating the people trying to HELP you, maybe youll learn something.
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Look at yourself. Are you as good at this as me? No? Ok, so shut up, and quit interrogating the people trying to HELP you, maybe youll learn something.
Geez i think we need more bandwith for tony's head :p
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Vince - dont hate me cuz im beautiful =)
but that's exactly why i do hate you :p;)
 

NotaGoatLover

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What if my passion is ...masterbating

Find your passion

Be involved in your passion for at least 2 hours every day


2 hours.....?....every day?
 

I-am-someone

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Smartass :p

Kinda funny, I've been doing most of this list without even having realised it. It's just become my life over the past few months and I have a very hard time just imagining the way I was before this.

People who aren't doing a lot of the things on this list, should definitely do them. This is a must for being a DJ.
 

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Sexy.
 

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What does not masterbating for 12 months have to do with anything?
 
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