"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An odd phenomenon with men who've found paradise overseas.

zekko

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zinc4 said:
Anyone who thinks the US has the best looking women or that white women are the best looking has never traveled. And the majority of people in Taiwan and Korea have very fair skin because they avoid the sun like the plague....although I prefer tans. There are some European and South American countries loaded with hot women as well.
I think the obesity epidemic alone is going to disqualify the idea that the US has the best looking women. Well over half the women in the US are overweight. Well over.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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While it will cost you 5k-10k to actually bring home a FINE Filipina, it's well worth it, because it's easy for her to pay YOU 100k over the next 5 years. For the dummies, that's 20k a year, not 100k a year. There are so many lovely young ladies there, they have such a hard life, and they know so many success stories about Filipinas who made it to the US, that any decent US man can take his pick of many thousands of smart, beautiful young women. If you want to keep beating your brains out by trying US women, go for it.
 

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twentee said:
While it will cost you 5k-10k to actually bring home a FINE Filipina, it's well worth it, because it's easy for her to pay YOU 100k over the next 5 years. For the dummies, that's 20k a year, not 100k a year. There are so many lovely young ladies there, they have such a hard life, and they know so many success stories about Filipinas who made it to the US, that any decent US man can take his pick of many thousands of smart, beautiful young women. If you want to keep beating your brains out by trying US women, go for it.
Oh just fvck off already old man
 

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It's only natural. If you feel mistreated in one place, and esteemed in another - you're going to think more highly of the second place.

Personally, having lived both abroad and in the US, my thinking is: a lot of American girls say that they like my but are not attracted to someone who isn't knocking off liquor stores and being an idiot in his spare time (a 'bad boy'). In Asia that almost never happened. I've read things about Western women 'wising up' as they get older and marrying more substantial men after fooling around with their bad boys during their 20s. My question is: why should I waste my best years on those women, rather than go to a place where they got it right the first time?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sageproduct said:
The average Asian girl is probably less attractive than the average US girl because...well...she's Asian.
Well up until fairly recently that was a commonly held view, I can honestly say that isn't really the case anymore.
 

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Leporello said:
It's only natural. If you feel mistreated in one place, and esteemed in another - you're going to think more highly of the second place.

Personally, having lived both abroad and in the US, my thinking is: a lot of American girls say that they like my but In Asia that almost never happened. I've read things about Western women 'wising up' as they get older and marrying more substantial men after fooling around with their bad boys during their 20s. My question is: why should I waste my best years on those women, rather than go to a place where they got it right the first time?
they dont get "wising up" , their priorities just get changed to look for provider , they still crave the bad boy and may be continue flying with him on behind of their husbands .
 
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