"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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an observation ive made here recently

jamescr73

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Lately, ive been striking up conversation with about anyone i come in contact with. #1 to hone my conversation skills and #2 to hone my C&F, and #3 to make it way easier to walk up to an HB and do my thing. So lately ive noticed something weird. I meet a lot of 3-6/10 women that are married. and the HB 7+'s are either single of have BF's (of course). So this got me wondering, why so many of the unattractive women are married and the better looking ones are still single. I was at the gym earlier and i think i figured out the answer. Guys these days are a bunch of pu$$ys, and cant lock down the hot ass. They have to settle for the UG's, and put a ring on her finger. Ive even seen decent looking guys with ugly chicks, im like :confused:. Good thing though, leaves more for me.
But on the other side of the coin, ive noticed that the better looking women i meet and talk to seem to be looking for something that doesnt exist. There are a lot of very shallow women out there, and they will end up either very alone, or settling for the bottom of the barrel one day. Not my problem
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ozzfest

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That hasn't been my experience. In my hood the good ones are taken and its nothing but scraps leftover. And the scraps are the only ones that are willing to play the game. Its that old cliche...he wants her and she wants somebody else.
 

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In America the quality of guys far surpasses what the females have to offer. There are very few decent looking girls left. Guys do everything. They stay in shape, they chase after chubs, they cater to their every need, etc. The females offer little in return. Reason why I would rather go gay than date a chub in America.

Again....NUMBERS. They are against the American male.
 

everywomanshero

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I dont seem to have any trouble finding hotties. Whether or not they have a bf or are married is really irrelevant. 15%-50% of married women cheat depending on which stat you pick. 2-10+% of all children born in marriage are not the husbands, again depening on which stat you trust. If this is an ethical issue, there are lots of both attractive and not attractive single women.

I agree that what some women want doesn't exist. They end up living alone with teenage children, and shagging random guys from online sites since they don't have a babysitter to go to bars often.

Men fall in love faster than women on average. Also men are more likely to seek exclusivity. The problem isn't so much women, it's that men have became somewhat unrealistic. Just because you bang a chic doesn;t mean she's going to marry you and have you kids. I say bang the chicks, and if they chase you, then maybe it can go somewhere. Otherwise, just take the lays and keep looking. I can't even imagine what guys are thinking trying to have serious relationships with women who aren't willing to pursue them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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