"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An observation and internet dating

TuPab46

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First...been reading the DJ Bible...great stuff so far.



Observation- There is this beautiful Asian woman I work with who is just...beautiful. She is beautiful...not hot...just flawless. That said, I have been getting lunch with her on breaks, she has a boyfriend, and have noticed something come true before my eyes...

SHE IS CRAZY! I mean, she is so beautiful, and kind of cool but she worries so much about aspects of her relationship that are trivial. Her boyfriend is a respectable, older, and busy businessman, so of course he is busy. I tell her this all the time and she always thinks he is up to something. I told her about this girl, that my boy just broke with, who got into his phone records and she doesn't say, oh my God that is terrible, or anything like that, but asks where I can get that program to do something like that. It is just baffling because this girl can get any guy she wants and she resorts to acting like a little child.


Internet: Me and Internet dating have never seen eye to eye. I think of myself as old fashioned and think internet dating is cheap. Well, this is the new age and I have to try to blend in some how. plus, my friends always get a lot of girls off of it. I tried it twice and never got crap. I think I came off as too lame in the photos and the way I presented myself.

Can someone direct me to a link or something that I can make the perfect internet profile? Much appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BrainDamage92

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If some girl has killer looks but no confidence to back this up THIS IS A HUGE MOTHEREFFIN RED FLAG been there not worth it. Good looking people have high self esteem and are never worried about spouses cheating, Idk, at least Im\was like that couse Im single since an year so IDK maybe Ive changed (humble I know). This is why having good looks is a double edged sword for anyone.

A low self esteem girl puts out, so thats cool, but when you add killed looks in the mix you get a nasty combo. Try to sleep with her it wont be hard I bet my left nut on that, just dont go in awe from her looks and fuk it up.

An pure evidence that my words are true is the fact she wants to snoop around her man's phone, not only that, she wants to install spyware - only cheaters do that.

Child-like, good looks, low self esteem = crazy
 

TuPab46

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Yeah, first off...she is saving herself and second I would never go near that...hell no...reminds me of an ex girlfriend I had. She is someone at work who is around my age and I talk to at lunch times. Thanks for replying and great advice. Do you know any good sites that could help me build a good online profile?
 

zinc4

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Ah....Asian women...so beautiful but so insecure on average and gamey....I still love them though only Spanish women are better...m
 
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