Aristippus
Master Don Juan
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This may seem odd to some of you who read this. This is something I am going to make a clumsy attempt to describe. I've seen this in a large number of women.......
It's almost as if they have a secret desire they aren't even aware of, to be secretly cheated on. Or anothed way to put it. Most women dread, yet hope and wish, that their man would either cheat in secret or be strongly tempted to cheat. They are almost masochistic in this.
The thought of it being discovered would make them see red and want to kill someone. But the idea that her man may be banging someone in secret is also somehow a strange turn-on. Like there is a part of her that wants to have to fight to keep you.
I am not advocating cheating. I never would myself, but have noticed when a woman is really into you, she almost, in some bizarre way, wishes you were having sex with other women. Cheating is not the answer. Just don't be surprised or get too offended if your girlfriend or wife occasionally says something like "Don't ever cheat on me." or "I see the way you look at that woman.".
As long as it doesn't get crazy and she isn't acting psycho, some jealousy and being protective is normal. Especially if you're not really flirting with anyone and she makes an off comment that you are. Just take the jealousy as a compliment, tell her briefly not to worry, etc. Get physically closer to her. Don't be surprised if she jumps on you later that night.
I'm sure some of you have had similar experiences.
It's almost as if they have a secret desire they aren't even aware of, to be secretly cheated on. Or anothed way to put it. Most women dread, yet hope and wish, that their man would either cheat in secret or be strongly tempted to cheat. They are almost masochistic in this.
The thought of it being discovered would make them see red and want to kill someone. But the idea that her man may be banging someone in secret is also somehow a strange turn-on. Like there is a part of her that wants to have to fight to keep you.
I am not advocating cheating. I never would myself, but have noticed when a woman is really into you, she almost, in some bizarre way, wishes you were having sex with other women. Cheating is not the answer. Just don't be surprised or get too offended if your girlfriend or wife occasionally says something like "Don't ever cheat on me." or "I see the way you look at that woman.".
As long as it doesn't get crazy and she isn't acting psycho, some jealousy and being protective is normal. Especially if you're not really flirting with anyone and she makes an off comment that you are. Just take the jealousy as a compliment, tell her briefly not to worry, etc. Get physically closer to her. Don't be surprised if she jumps on you later that night.
I'm sure some of you have had similar experiences.